"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to become a master time managing machine?

khash

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Guys, I want to start off by asking anyone here who is a good time manager to speak a bit about their mastery. I have met a lot of guys here who are amazing guys and are extremely efficient.

I think efficiency is key. time management is key. All you have is time, you are going to die due to unfolding of your genetics material which will come to an end. You are lucky to live up to your natural life time as many are killed by accidents and other incidents every second.

In a world that has 7 billion people who are all striving to be the best they can be, do you really think it is easy to be successful. the society does not allow the masses to be successful, in fact they have designed media, movies and etc to keep you away from success and keep you as average Joe.

I once heard from someone years ago that to be successful, you have to transform yourself into a machine, a machine that uses every second to self improve on it self and doesnt waste a second. I know know what he was talking about.

Every single person is driven by their genetics to be the best they can be and no matter how hard you work, there are tons of people who will make you look like a tool. We all think we were destined yo be a superstar and are going to become millionaires and get the hottest wives when we grow up.

No WAY. It is a combination of media, parental upbringings and your own internal genetics that makes you think this way. I for one know that doing the things I am doing right now, will get me nowhere near a millionaire, the hottest wive and a good life. You guys are hopefully all differnt and have a hold of your lives. successis a combination of working efficiently/hard/ meeting the right people at the righttime, getting influenced by a knowledgeable mentor, genetically driven etc.


to be successful, in everything( women is just one part) you have to think and do the unimaginable. You have to be a MACHINE, because being a human wont cut it, every one else is human, do you want to be like everyone else?

Seriously, I have decided from Monday August 28th 2006 to transform my self into a machine. A machine who is socially calibrated, a machine that is efficient, a machine without fear of approach, fear of doing unnormal things. A machine with an ever expanding social circle, successful career and I want to achieve more than most humans can even imagine achieving in their life times.

You guys were here when I wrote this.

K.G.H
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Buy a blackberry or pay 35k/yr for a blonde with big boobs to be your personal assistant. Depends on your financial situation in determining which to pick.
 

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Yea its nice to think that way, its like mental masterbation. You're a machine, you can do anything because a machine cannot be stopped! that novelty quickly wears off.
 

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I thought the goal of life was to be happy? Will you really be happy if you are constantely comparing yourself to Billions of other people? Besides, you are assuming that those people are all competetors. They are not.

Most people won't even play the game. Those who do you are right.. they all have to compete. I found another way, I just take what I want and I don't compete much. I create advantages that mean I wil win easily.

How? For example, I get jobs through social contacts and people close to me. I am already hired before I apply and none of the other applicant's resumes even get looked at. With women, I get them to approach me by how I dress and act. I do not compete with the rat race very often anymore. There is another way.

Getting rid of cable TV is a good idea. Have a friend tape Heffs show or something if you want to talk TV with people. Cut down on Inet time. In another week, I'll probably be here very rarely for a while. Make some kind of schedule.

For example:

8:00 am Wake-Trim Nosehair-Puke EyeBrows-Brush Teeth-Scrape Tongue-Shave/Trim facial hair-Shower-Put on Sunscreen/Moisturize-Gel-Clothing(reverse if not buttonable shirt)-Cologne
9:30 am Breakfast-Leave for school
1:00 pm Break to Lobby study until a hottie is spotted
2:00 pm Class
3:00 pm Find group of girls to eat with-floss-brush teeth-Play DDR/Bowl with chix
5:00 pm More Class
7:30 pm Eat-Study-Workout-Brush Teeth-Wash Face-Moisturize
10:00 pm Start mediation
10:15 pm Check email, make a post, now it's bedtime

Just an example. I listen to any recorded media while driving or trying to fall asleep to save time. Unfortunately, it usually takes 3 attempts to fully understand what I'm listening to using this style. I also dictate school notes to listen to in the car. I do Mystic tan on the days I work to avoid having too many different things going on at once, and I only attend Alexander Technique once a week sue to time constraints. I am going to have to work in dance classes next month too. Should give you an idea of something you might try.
 
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