Guys....we're in an extremely precarious dancing routine these days. Women secretly WANT masculine guys...but every politically correct factor in their life is urging them to REJECT them.
So what do they do??
They do what women generally ALWAYS do. They fool themselves into thinking that theyre' being politically correct, and then they DO WHAT THEY WANT ANYWAYS ...
So how do you deal with it?
Here's a secret or two that might help. You'll have to use your own judgement.
1. When you are FIRST dating a women, KEEP MOST OF IT TO YOURSELF. That's right. This is not a time to spout off. Go ahead and BE masculine.....but dont come on too strong.
2. You ought to be dating NON FEMINISTS anyway. But when you go on a first date,,,chances are ,you really dont know how bad she is...youre INTERVIEWING her right?? You asked her out cause she SEEMED feminine. So give her a chance to PROVE it now.
3. After a date or two the middle phase will emerge. She'll pull out her tests. This is when you go to work. This is the phase where she'll start to ACT LIKE HER TRUE SELF. If you see anti-male comments, independence credos, or anything putting you down,,,this is where you bail.
Also, at this point, you might get a test. "I'm starting to get to know you Jim. Have I gotten you trained yet?"""
When you hear this....you know you're at the phase where the old male/female tug of war is emerging. And you better damn well be ready for it.
4. So KNOW exactly how youre going to deal with it. Personally, I deal with it CALMLY and FIRMLY.
"Train me huh?" "No woman controls me. You oughtta know that by now".
See the beauty in this? You havnt reacted on an emotional level. You've told her very plainly that you're going to have the upper hand at all times.
5. At this phase you're ready for what i call PLAIN SPEAK ..
You've gotten past the bulljive....and you're going to find out about the LIFE VIEW of this girl.
She's either gonna LET YOU BE A MAN,,or she's NOT.
And you want to find out the answer to this because this relationship is either going to be more serious or drop at this point.
6. Traditional speech. This is a good time to finally TELL her something. not just SHOW her, that you are a traditional guy and that she is NOT GOING TO CONTROL YOU.
7. The control phase is where she begins to attempt to train you/pick on you/re arrange your appearance/ criticize you/ and question your masculinity// and also might begin to compare you to other men she's known.
8. It is probably important to withdraw from the relationship for a period of time during this phase. She's gonna test you.....to see if she can TRAIN you,,( translated control you ...translated see if you are wimpy )...or if you can walk away anytime you want.
9. Well.....now you have enough information on whether to go forward or not in this friendship. each phase is revealing you to be a man,,,not a wimp. You shown that she has to pass your tests... and NOT hers.
10. Any feminist tendencies that come up at any phase should be investigated. If she starts femspeak at any point, WITHDRAW. Her reaction will give you all the information you need my pal.
So what do they do??
They do what women generally ALWAYS do. They fool themselves into thinking that theyre' being politically correct, and then they DO WHAT THEY WANT ANYWAYS ...
So how do you deal with it?
Here's a secret or two that might help. You'll have to use your own judgement.
1. When you are FIRST dating a women, KEEP MOST OF IT TO YOURSELF. That's right. This is not a time to spout off. Go ahead and BE masculine.....but dont come on too strong.
2. You ought to be dating NON FEMINISTS anyway. But when you go on a first date,,,chances are ,you really dont know how bad she is...youre INTERVIEWING her right?? You asked her out cause she SEEMED feminine. So give her a chance to PROVE it now.
3. After a date or two the middle phase will emerge. She'll pull out her tests. This is when you go to work. This is the phase where she'll start to ACT LIKE HER TRUE SELF. If you see anti-male comments, independence credos, or anything putting you down,,,this is where you bail.
Also, at this point, you might get a test. "I'm starting to get to know you Jim. Have I gotten you trained yet?"""
When you hear this....you know you're at the phase where the old male/female tug of war is emerging. And you better damn well be ready for it.
4. So KNOW exactly how youre going to deal with it. Personally, I deal with it CALMLY and FIRMLY.
"Train me huh?" "No woman controls me. You oughtta know that by now".
See the beauty in this? You havnt reacted on an emotional level. You've told her very plainly that you're going to have the upper hand at all times.
5. At this phase you're ready for what i call PLAIN SPEAK ..
You've gotten past the bulljive....and you're going to find out about the LIFE VIEW of this girl.
She's either gonna LET YOU BE A MAN,,or she's NOT.
And you want to find out the answer to this because this relationship is either going to be more serious or drop at this point.
6. Traditional speech. This is a good time to finally TELL her something. not just SHOW her, that you are a traditional guy and that she is NOT GOING TO CONTROL YOU.
7. The control phase is where she begins to attempt to train you/pick on you/re arrange your appearance/ criticize you/ and question your masculinity// and also might begin to compare you to other men she's known.
8. It is probably important to withdraw from the relationship for a period of time during this phase. She's gonna test you.....to see if she can TRAIN you,,( translated control you ...translated see if you are wimpy )...or if you can walk away anytime you want.
9. Well.....now you have enough information on whether to go forward or not in this friendship. each phase is revealing you to be a man,,,not a wimp. You shown that she has to pass your tests... and NOT hers.
10. Any feminist tendencies that come up at any phase should be investigated. If she starts femspeak at any point, WITHDRAW. Her reaction will give you all the information you need my pal.