"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It doesnt matter how much you learn or know about attracting, picking up or creating interest in women. Its about you going out and APPLYING what you learned or know. I'll give you an example. Take two guys who never played an instrument. Lets say they both want to learn how to play the drums and both of them never played before, ever!

Now, lets say guy #1 only pactices a few times a month. Guy #2 pactices everyday for every month.

Who will play the drums better? Obviously, guy #2. He will gain more experience, things will become more familiar and natural. Guy #1 will learn will learn somethings along the way but, will never be as good as guy #2 who is practicing everyday. Because that is what it takes to be good at something. Staying dedicated and motivated and keep going on no matter what.

Same thing with being a Don Juan. It doesnt happen over night. It takes hard work and dedication! Only applying what you know will give you experience. So, get off the computer and get into the field!

-DJ Krueg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What if guy 1 has the perfect schedule to learn something and guy 2 is just randomly hitting the drums...

You need to sit down a short period and think or read up on:
- what are my goals
- why are these my goals
- how will i achieve this goal in an efficient way
- in what timespan can i achieve such a goal (alwayse overrate this one)
- what will I gain if I achieve this goal; will this make me happier...

I guess your advice implies on being PUA (not DJ)
- my goal is to score women
- because i think boobs will make me happy (*correction, I know*) and sex...
- by practicing the art of PUA?
- X - months
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The bloodhound gang said:
Hooray for boobies
:yes: :up:
 

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Credos said:
What if guy 1 has the perfect schedule to learn something and guy 2 is just randomly hitting the drums...

You need to sit down a short period and think or read up on:
- what are my goals
- why are these my goals
- how will i achieve this goal in an efficient way
- in what timespan can i achieve such a goal (alwayse overrate this one)
- what will I gain if I achieve this goal; will this make me happier...

I guess your advice implies on being PUA (not DJ)
- my goal is to score women
- because i think boobs will make me happy (*correction, I know*) and sex...
- by practicing the art of PUA?
- X - months
- :yes: :up:
I think you read my post the way you wanted to read it.

What I'm saying is if your just sitting around reading how to be a Don Juan and hardly ever go out and try to improve yourself. Then, you will never really learn anything. You'll just be running back to this site wondering how do I do this, what should I say and ect. Opposed to the guys who take chances and risks, learn from their experience and gain knowledge.

When, guys around here look up to someone like Pook. How do you think he gained his knowledge? He went out into the FIELD and took ACTION! Not just one time, but several times. Which, made him successful..
 

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Krueg said:
When, guys around here look up to someone like Pook. How do you think he gained his knowledge? He went out into the FIELD and took ACTION! Not just one time, but several times. Which, made him successful..
True, but I think Pook spent a lot of time thinking and took action. Practice makes perfect and theory can only get you so far, but action without thinking is just as useless as thinking without action.

It's best to be a thinker and an action taker.
 

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Who will play the drums better? Obviously, guy #2
Generally, I agree with what you're saying. But when it comes to being good with women, there are a lot of other factors at play. Maybe guy #1 has better looks, more status, more money, more power, is taller, has a better wardrobe, has more fun hobbies, has a more interesting life to talk about, has a better sense of humor, etc, etc, etc, etc.

But that's practically irrelevant, it doesn't help to compare yourself with others. To do as well as you can, the best thing you can do is practice.

As for Pook, Pook wrote for himself. I find that some of what he says applies to me, and some of it doesn't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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