suaveplayer
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Sticky!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How To Be Social
- Thread starter Quiksilver
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Yup, sounds good 
Too late for my high school days, but I'm going to college out of state in the fall, so I get to start fresh.
Too late for my high school days, but I'm going to college out of state in the fall, so I get to start fresh.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Edit: mods if you can delete this post . Wrong thread .
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Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
This is great post . Most of the guys need this .
Number #1 key ( actually all of them are #1 ) to get women is to be
SOCIAL ,
CONFIDENT ,
FUNNY ,
PLAYFUL ,
****Y .
. Most of the guys need this . Number #1 key ( actually all of them are #1 ) to get women is to be
SOCIAL ,
CONFIDENT ,
FUNNY ,
PLAYFUL ,
****Y .
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
Quality posts? In my HS Forum??! Nice.
I'll have to toss out there DON'T be the aggravating dude who punches everybodys shoulder a little too hard and acts like a dumbass because he thinks everybody is his best bud.
Chillax
I'll have to toss out there DON'T be the aggravating dude who punches everybodys shoulder a little too hard and acts like a dumbass because he thinks everybody is his best bud.
Chillax
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheEnergizer
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bump. great stuff.