"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to be sexual

dutchmaster

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Any help?

I'm pretty confident around women in the sense I can act like myself and make them laugh. Touching isn't a problem either. I've read building sexual tension is more body language than anything, getting closer, strong eye contact etc. But, how can I be more sexual or direct verbally? Any tips?

Also when I start building sexual tension with girls I actually want 2 fvck, I pop boners. Is that normal? Haha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zinc4

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your tonality when you speak is huge...have you ever dirty talked or phone sexed with a chick or dirty talk while having sex...use that style and rythm of voice but do it in a much lighter plyayful way like mocking something a tad bit silly she says with that same bedroom voice and your eyes...do this and the kino will come naturally because she will be laughing and turned on at the same time
 

dutchmaster

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True, tried it out at work yesterday. This hb10 I been flirtin with kept coming up to me so I tried it and it made a huge difference, with the eye contact too.. felt the sexual tension building haha.

Asked her out later too and she said yea. First 10 i'm gonna go on a date with !
 
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