im not sure if this is how it works for everyone, but i find that having this side of nature... Calm and mysterious, yet sociable
you are usually more respected by guys and girls compared to those that may talk a lot boisterously.
there are times where i may do some fluff talk or short chat with someoen, then at other times, i may just be quiet and have my **** together...like im busy doing something, or am thinking of something. i do this at work, at school, with friends, etc.
i believe with the looks and this kind of attitude, you can be intimidating. im not ugly, and i've had this attitude almost my whole life so yea it can be quite intimidating. ppl may not even bother talking to you, because your intimidation makes it seem like you're a very busy person (have a lot going on), which possibly you're already put up on the pedestal by guys and girls.
about 3 semesters ago the girl i dindt talk to for the whole term came up to me at the end of the semester and started showing interest...of course i was AFCish bacdk then and answered her questions, of course she's pretty egotistic so she turned out to be a *****.
but one thing for a fact is that having this attitude will get you more respect compared to a loudmouth that talks crap all the time of what he's capable of....which one of my friends is that loudmouth.
but i think another reason that these types of ppl are respected is that they
#1 cool, calm, collected (got their **** together)
#2 arent annoying (not al oud mouth)
#3 arent needy (as in bugging someone if tthey wanna do stuff w/him, or just bugging them in general)
#4 seem like there's more to them than they seem, have already set their goals in life (like you're a very capable person)
altho im sure #4 is the strongest reason why are a mysterious person, cause you emit that vibe which makes ppl wonder what you're capable of
i find this is more of a personality characteristic, if this is not you then it simply isnt. dont try to act it or fake it if it isnt you cause ppl can tell easily.
back when i was a kid i was generally more reserved, deep thinker, and less sociable.
but i guess as i got older , this type of personality evolved, which made me mysterious, 3 c's, socializer (but not a loud mouth), and just interesting in general.
but yea, the strong silent type just emits this kind of aura to ppl that ppl respect