drumr2
Don Juan
You often see (in movies and such) that the quiet/mysterious types usually peak the interest of the girls. While mysterious always accompanies quiet, quiet does NOT always accompany mysterious. Often times, quiet can denote a shy/boring nature and will KILL any interest in a girl.
I'm asking the experianced DJ's here, if any of you have or use this persona?? What is the difference between the two? How can one be quiet and seem mysterious rather than just shy and boring? You have 2 guys...one is quiet and comes off as shy/boring/passive, etc....and the other seems mysterious and therefore interesting. What is the seperating factor there??
The reason I ask is because I'll be going back to church soon. My motivations are partially spiritual, but also for the fact that some of the better girls will be found there. I will be attending social functions and such, so I will be seeing mostly the same girls over and over again. I will have (as Doc Love calls it) a "captive audience". I have learned from my past that I am generally a very open and talkative kind of person once I get comfortable. The problem with that is I give away too much about myself to the people I hang out with the most. Obviously, this is NOT a way to get chicks to want to date you when you're telling them anything and everything about yourself during social functions. Right? I don't want to do this anymore. I want to go into this with a clean slate....keep my mouth shut....and hopefully play the quiet/mysterious card.
Any advice here (beyond answering the original question) would be greatly appreciated.
I'm asking the experianced DJ's here, if any of you have or use this persona?? What is the difference between the two? How can one be quiet and seem mysterious rather than just shy and boring? You have 2 guys...one is quiet and comes off as shy/boring/passive, etc....and the other seems mysterious and therefore interesting. What is the seperating factor there??
The reason I ask is because I'll be going back to church soon. My motivations are partially spiritual, but also for the fact that some of the better girls will be found there. I will be attending social functions and such, so I will be seeing mostly the same girls over and over again. I will have (as Doc Love calls it) a "captive audience". I have learned from my past that I am generally a very open and talkative kind of person once I get comfortable. The problem with that is I give away too much about myself to the people I hang out with the most. Obviously, this is NOT a way to get chicks to want to date you when you're telling them anything and everything about yourself during social functions. Right? I don't want to do this anymore. I want to go into this with a clean slate....keep my mouth shut....and hopefully play the quiet/mysterious card.
Any advice here (beyond answering the original question) would be greatly appreciated.