How to be manly?

[Strangertx1]

I want answers with some meat. Dont give me comments about integrity, honesty, etc. I want specific details on what a guy can do to exert his masculinity. What physical things can a guy do? What about interaction with girls? And what of activities that a guy can engage in? I find it interesting that the thugs and drug dealers are the ones with all the fine hoes while the geeks and nerds jack off every night. There is got to be something about these individuals that make women hot. It is that what I want the discussion to focus on.

Que viva Mexico cabrones!!!!

 

[SmoothTalker]

Well if you want physical things.. Get very fit and muscular (think marines, special forces, SWAT guys), grow some facial hair, get some scars.

Don't take **** from women or be afraid of them (or anyone else) and know how to kick ass if you have to but don't be an ******* intentionally picking fights.

Play football, drink beer and whiskey, and drive a pickup.

All those are considered manly, though I personally would only recommend about half that crap.

 

[r0cky]

Watch Sean Connory in James bond. Thats what you should be like.

 

[02hero]

In a nutshell - love, and do as you wish.

 

[gottiwill]

This is EASY.
Watch 300.
be EXACTLY like King Leonidas.
He's a REAL MAN

 

[suavesuave]

real man u said?
http://i108.photobucket.com/albums/n28/imahustla78/funny.jpg

 

[Rex Man]

(The questions people come up with)

1) Good cologne

2) Act as if you deserve respect, not as if you must fight to get it.

3) Maintain good posture

4) Facial hair is good, just don't let it get crazy

5) Even if you love talking about your emotions, don't let the chick know that.

6) Be sexual

7) Admit no fears

8) get at least 1 outdoor hobby

9) Speak less than the woman, your words will seem more profound.

That's enough for now. Anything more specific just ask.

Rex "The Man's" Man :crackup:

 

[Rex Man]

This is EASY.
Watch 300.
be EXACTLY like King Leonidas.
He's a REAL MAN

But.......this is MADNESS!

 

[WC2]

Stop caring what others think and start doing what you want to do.

 

[Strangertx1]

Re:

Lets get more specific. I see a girl who is good looking. How would a manly man approach her *say at a store?

 

[Rhoto]

Lets get more specific. I see a girl who is good looking. How would a manly man approach her *say at a store?

*smile*
"Hi. Are you really gonna buy that?"

Being a man is about not fearing failure.

 

[ProDJ26]

But.......this is MADNESS!

madness?

THIS IS SPAAAAAARTA!!!!

(Big azz boot into the pit he goes)

 

[DonJuan11]

Lets get more specific. I see a girl who is good looking. How would a manly man approach her *say at a store?

Find something in common with her, ask questions, make her laugh, make her comfortable, let her do the talking. Remember, you are dealing with her emotions, her feelings about you. If you can provide her strong emotions in the 2 min you talk to her, you are in.

We can't give one line to make her knees weak so she will sleep with you right away.

 

[ItsOnNow]

I am at a low point, I always feel empty, depressed and worthless, and do what I can to take my mind off of it, whether it be drinking,work or watching movies. I am always terribley lonely whilst feeling desperate for any kind of interaction, this has led to thoughts I never thought I would have about myself. Including not living anymore. This has been ongoing and feels like there is no way out for me. I feel unmanly and behind everyone else. Its not easy hearing about how the other got a 2 girl ******* and you havent. Maybe its my looks, inner state, non understanding or awareness of social ques, which is what this game is about. All I have evere wanted was someone to love and to love me back, regardless of looks, status, game, availability and so on.

 

[JimmyBizzle]

Just don't care about what someone else thinks. If you're truly happy with yourself, it will show, and others(mainly females) will see it. It took me a while to figure that out, but once I did it worked wonders. Good luck my brother.

And things that help you get to this state largely involve being confident with how you look i.e. working out, and having a purpose and clearly defined goals in your life WITH time parameters so females don't think you're like all the other clueless/dumbass guys out there in the world who are all talk but are gonna be mopping up hurl and lung butter somewhere till they're 50.

 

[Canadian Catnip]

Manliness or masculinity.

An excellent topic. I have been thinking about this for several months now and I have come to several conclusions.

First, there is an old saying that the greater understands both the lesser and the greater, while the lesser only understands the lesser. Take a child and an adult for example. The adult understands what it's like to be a child and an adult, whereas the child understands what it's like to be a child only, and has no knowledge of being an adult. An owner of a company knows what it's like to be a worker and an owner, but a worker has no knowledge of what it's like to be an owner.

So the greater always has more knowledge of things than the lesser. It's the same thing with being a boy and a man. A boy doesn't understand what it means to be a man. Whereas a man understands what it's like to be a boy and a man. This helps a man distinguish between his behaviors or actions and allows him to judge what actions and thoughts are mature and which ones are immature.

Being a man means understanding and choosing the behaviors that represent a man and not a boy. Even as adults we are tempted to act like a child. We have the responsibility to choose adult behavior, some adults don't and thats their choice if they want to continue to live like a child. Being a man means you make conscious decisions and choose what you do based on a higher set of values that a boy.

Men come from strength. This translates into so many things in your life, I can't go into every detail.

Men seek out manhood, they don't want to be boys their whole life and have a desire the become stronger that they have been. Seek out what makes you stronger and you will be on the path to manhood.

 

[Rex Man]

Noob,

Obviously, not giving a sh!t and doing what he wants to do has NOT been getting him to his goals (whatever they may be), so why the FVCK would he keep doing it??

The fact of the matter is, many people want to learn and improve, not remain stagnant. Although I do believe your intentions are noble, your pseudo-psychologist bullsh!t is not actually helping anyone. (Although i do agree with the sexuality part)

 

[Rex Man]

Lets get more specific. I see a girl who is good looking. How would a manly man approach her *say at a store?

Fight through your timidity. Don't be scared that you're going to offend her or disrespect her in any way. You can use damn near any icebreaker if you say it with the right tone and BL.

 

[JahGlory]

let women walk all over you

think you can be a man with no work on your own

ask people on a forum who are obviously posting instead of going somewhere and doing somethnig productive what their ****ed up views on masculenity are

and MOST OF ALL!! DO NOT ASK YOUR DAD OR GRANDPA OR OTHER MEN OR SEEK A MENTOR OR TO GOOGLE THIS QUESTION!! I REPEAT DO NOT BECAUSE EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING EXCEPT SOSUAVE.NET IS BSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSB :cheer:

do u have no brains??

 

[Chipleader]

How to be manly? Simply act like a Man.