"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to be good at flirting?

Maximummax

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I am really bad and loosing attraction from girls at the beginning itself HELP!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Htienvu

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I think you've got to break all the barriers that holds you back, right now you're afraid how a girl might perceive you if you do certain things eg. Kino. Got to get past yours and her comfort zone without being creepy to be able to flirt. Like Espi said, eye contact is one of the most important things, then kino, tease her and lead the convo to saucy talk if you can. Do this by making dirty jokes, use ****y/funny etc...

Most of the time it's the way you carry yourself instead of what you say.
 
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