"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how to be cool ???

djneo

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.. to all expert jd's here,, I'm just want to ask your different style in handling misunderstanding in a relationship..? Is there something that i can practice to be more matured in dealing on misunderstanding? How do you keep it light and funny when you encountered some BS from your girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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for me through ignoring her completely worked wonders. chicks love attention and when you pull that plug out they rationalize and apologize.

and if not, then next them.

that is why you will read HAVING A LIFE is on the top 3 of being an alpha or w/e the hell you call it.
 

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,, yup.. i agree on that.As matter of fact, it really works! =) ..as a DJ, can u give me some instances where i should be the one to apologize?
 
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