"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to be cool ???

djneo

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.. to all expert jd's here,, I'm just want to ask your different style in handling misunderstanding in a relationship..? Is there something that i can practice to be more matured in dealing on misunderstanding? How do you keep it light and funny when you encountered some BS from your girls?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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for me through ignoring her completely worked wonders. chicks love attention and when you pull that plug out they rationalize and apologize.

and if not, then next them.

that is why you will read HAVING A LIFE is on the top 3 of being an alpha or w/e the hell you call it.
 

djneo

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,, yup.. i agree on that.As matter of fact, it really works! =) ..as a DJ, can u give me some instances where i should be the one to apologize?
 
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