how to be cool when you look like a serious nerd

[commodore]

heres one of my biggest problems

phyiscaly im about about 5'8 (which isn't that bad but compared to other men its pretty short) and i look like a total nerd.

i look childish, like 15 yrs old. thats just my face, i can't change it

anyway, what to do? i cant be an alphamale if i look like a total *****, no woman would date me no matter how much confidence i convery right?

 

[wolf116]

how old are you. Hit the gym it will change your face.

Or you could get into some fights and get some scars on it.

 

[commodore]

im 20

and i got plenty of scars from fighting, acne that is

LOL

 

[insanity]

i always liked the saying "you think, you are". all you have to do is change your perception of yourself and the world will too.

have you ever tried a new hairstyle or wardrobe. it can do wonders. sometimes even your friends can sabotage your image. i use to have a friend that always told me women are into the military buzz cut look, yet he never did it. then a few years later i went out with a girl that was a hairstylist and she told me to grow my hair and she would do wonders with it. she did wonders was right cause i still do the same hairstyle to this day and women check me out now. it was a confidence booster

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Why on't you hit the gym and
get ripped?

 

[Knock]

you probably need to change your hair

try a new hairstyle and maybe grow some facial hair if it suits you

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Being a "nerd" isn't about HOW you look, it is more about how you put yourself together. I have seen someone go from looking like a BIG nerd to "cool" just by changing the hairstyle...usually a change or wardrobe helps a lot too.

 

[DJinTraining06]

i always liked the saying "you think, you are". all you have to do is change your perception of yourself and the world will too.

have you ever tried a new hairstyle or wardrobe. it can do wonders. sometimes even your friends can sabotage your image. i use to have a friend that always told me women are into the military buzz cut look, yet he never did it. then a few years later i went out with a girl that was a hairstylist and she told me to grow my hair and she would do wonders with it. she did wonders was right cause i still do the same hairstyle to this day and women check me out now. it was a confidence booster

Doesn't your 2nd paragraph totally contradict the first?

 

[Kev07]

lets see

1. hair, short hair is always good.
2. gym, get some muscles, if you already have muscles but you stilll look like a nerd... get some more muscles.
3. posture, stand straight, shoulders back chest out, changes everything.
4. squint your eyes just a tad bit, makes you look like you're mugging something and takes away the "my eyes are wide open staring at a monitor or book all day long"
5. close your mouth if it's open, if you have buck teeth, i don't know i don't have buck teeth, but try to conceal it a bit or something

but the first 3 are really all you need