"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to be beyond bad handsome boys

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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David Deangelo's materials and the forum here are awsome. But will it be enough to go beyond bad and handsome boys?

Also, many hot babes in my society have boyfriends. Now I believe that it's ok go for these women anyway. After all, attraction is not a choice and all I have to do is trigger it first. But again, will these skills be enough?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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If impossible, how about we all discuss a plan together. You know, set a goal.

When there's a will, there a way... I hope.
 

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Also, many hot babes in my society have boyfriends. Now I believe that it's ok go for these women anyway. After all, attraction is not a choice and all I have to do is trigger it first.
Do unto others as you would have them to unto you.
 

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there's always someone better.

hope that keeps you warm at night.

delta
 

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Rookie, I honestly do believe that the skills you pick up and develop will help you immensely. As long as you're doing self-improvement in other aspects of your life (working out, maintaining a job, expanding your social circle etc.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Knyteguy said:
The golden rule is a guide for an AFC imo.

It's their job to hold on to their women.
So if you're in a LTR with a girl and I come up to her using all kinds of stupid techniques that I have MASTERED, while having the best possible body, and practically brainwash her into thinking she loves me instead of you, and ends up cheating on you with me it's your fault that you couldn't hold onto her? Come on man, getting women is too easy, and so is stealing women, the golden rule applies very well and should be respected.
 

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and rightly so....

the karmic way of thinking about it doesn't only apply to the good side of life:

"do unto others...." can be a bytch.

delta
 
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