"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
how to be agressive
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
benjiprice
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This is kinda aggressive/dominant, but one thing I do is not ask a girl to do things. Examples:
- If you need her to move in a certain direction (e.g. she's in your way, she's walking the wrong direction for where you're going, she's in someone else's way) you don't ask her to move, you take her arm and you move her.
- If you want a kiss, whereever you are, you take her and you kiss her.
- If you want sex you push her up against the wall and get things going.
etc...
Don't ask and don't hesitate. Make your movements smooth but determined.
Dongfu
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Street_Fighter
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Interceptor
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try a few of these tried and true things:
When sexing her doggy style, grab her hair and pull on it, and thrust harder, faster, and deepr when you do. Bite her on the back of her neck as your pumping away.
Grab her arms and pull them behind as if she were bound.
While she's against a wall, grab her arms and pull them up, again as if she wer bound. Feel her up. Finger her. Kiss her mad pasionately,. Bite her neck. Spread her legs open and pound her into the wall.
You can also express a little aggression by varying your thrusts. Pound into her hard, and vary to soft. Put it in halfway, then slide it in all the way in.
Also, grabbing her waist, aher thighs, and flipping her around and over to accomodate the positions is tried and true too.Bascially, she wants to be Manhandled every now and then.
Also, try to look at your love making as kind of a symphony. There are a LOT of Dynamics. Loud, Soft, Fast, Slow. So think along those lines on your sex with her. Alternate positions, sometimes coitus, sometimes oral, or fingering penetration, rubbing.
You've got loads of stuff you can use to avoid a flat, boring, and predictable sex life.
Maestro!! A Crescendo, please!!