How to be a man...through respect

[Void]

Argh, I was about to post this before but I accidentally clicked back and lost it. I'll try to make this as good...
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On this forum there seems to be a misconception---everyone being the same and having the same game and moves.

You have to EXPRESS YOUR OPINION. That's what seperates the MEN from PVSSIES. I'll trample on you if you can't back yourself up. So shut up.

You EXPRESS YOUR opinion in everyday life.

Example

"Dude 24 BLOWS. EVERY episode the world's about to end and it never does. And they never go to the bathroom. Real life eh?"

"That's because youre a little fag who sits at home watching the OC, Oh...I forgot you had a vagina."

Got IT?

You have to be CREATIVE. You can't just sit there and saY "dude shut up." or "Babe I respect your opinion."

Are you a man?
Do you have an opinion?

THEN EXPRESS IT.

Creativity...

"I can't believe you took me to see that movie it sucked SO bad."

"Just like you do...why can't you be better at sucking?"

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or
" Dude that movie sucked!"

"yeah just like you suck ****."
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It's a bit of being an *******. But you get the point of holding your own.

The idea is to be RIGHT when you're WRONG.

You're opinion is always right.

My examples were a bit *******-ish but for instance if someone says "Sublime is fvcking gay." When you're favorite band is Sublime. Then you can say "You only think that before you're fvcking gay." That's a bit more normal. Except get creative...
I'm creative because I have a huge imagination. I like writing and watching stand up comedies. If that's not you then you can simply to tell them your opinion

WITH POWER.

Your opinoin + Power= You being right

Remember.....

You're right, even if you're wrong.

And be SMART.

And then you'll be respected.

 

[IronRice]

This is it right here. I love this junk. You said it the best

 

[Zod]

I disagree with this post Void, and heres why.

I agree that you can't be a supplicative little ***** and agree with everything someone says. But what you are telling people is to make confrontations. You never want to come off as a tough guy who will fight anyone over the stupidest stuff. Be it with a girl or guy, if you disagree with something they said, say you disagree and let them know why. Don't attack them verbally (or in some moronic cases physically) because of something they said.

If anything, getting into some huge confrontation with someone will most likely work against you with chicks.

If you get into a confrontation with a girl, well, don't expect to be seeing her anymore. I'm not saying be a poontang and agree with everything a girl you are seeing says, but definently don't become negative and start insulting her ideas. Rather, be cool, and let her know your opinions.

Many of the posters here seem to believe that being “alpha” means assuming a “tough-guy” attitude, and calling people out to prove how “bad ass” they are, not taking **** from anyone, saying anything they want to girls, ect, ect. This is definently not theway to approach being a DJ or PUA.

 

[NYC Dude]

Originally posted by Void

"Dude 24 BLOWS. EVERY episode the world's about to end and it never does. And they never go to the bathroom. Real life eh?"

"That's because youre a little fag who sits at home watching the OC, Oh...I forgot you had a vagina."

...

"I can't believe you took me to see that movie it sucked SO bad."

"Just like you do...why can't you be better at sucking?"

...

" Dude that movie sucked!"

"yeah just like you suck ****."

That's not being tough or powerful, and it sure as hell isn't being "smart" as you say we should all be. That's just being an ass.

 

[08aisaac]

I think that 24 sucks, but I love the OC. I hear the next season starts soon. I can't wait.

But yeah opinion is the best thing you can have. If you don't, people will think you are stupid. They will think you aren't smart enough to form your own.

 

[Inquire]

24 does suck^

also man, tat thread didnt even really make sense, but i got it after thinking. u know waht would be better, if u didnt cuss all the time. cussing only makes u seem non-intelligent to find better words. not hating but its a fact. and i dont think chicks like it when dudes cuss.

 

[Void]

Originally posted by Void


If that's not you then you can simply to tell them your opinion

Zod-

I know what you mean. I don't mean to be an *******, I mean to express your opinion. I guess this seems a bit fired up because i wrote it after football.




Basically I was trying to say don't fall into others opinions because you DON'T want to lose their friendship. Just say "dude whatever." or something. Yeah, well if it's not for you don't do it.

 

[Big Eee Zee]

first off:
That's because youre a little fag who sits at home watching the OC, Oh...I forgot you had a vagina.

This isn't offensive or mean, it's just stupid. I mean, it doesn't even make sense. It's like you reached into a bag of insults and pulled out two random ones strung together. It's like scrabble gone mad.


Second off-I do this all the time. I don't get respect, no-one thinks of me as more of a man, I just get a kick out of it. It's fun making fun of stupid people.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
It's like you reached into a bag of insults and pulled out two random ones strung together. It's like scrabble gone mad...

...It's fun making fun of stupid people.

...lol

for the most part void, you usually have good ideas, and this is no exception. But I think you went overboard a little

yes, you have to keep your own opinion, but you dont have to be an ******* to do it. its your opinion, someone arguing it with you doesn't change it. the point of being a dj is that your smooth and in control and nothing bothers you. when you say things like "thats because your a fvcking d!cknose" it makes you look like your being defensive. djs dont need to be defensive.

if someone says "I hate House its a terrible show" and you like the show, just say "I love it, the guy is hilarious" easy, you stand your ground and let your opinion be known, but theres no confrontation.

keep it up though man, your on the right path

ps If you've never seen the show House, watch that sh!t, its hilarious

EDIT: you can even come right out and say the person is wrong, but minus the hostility