"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to Be a Man: The Guide To Fufillment and Hapiness in Life.

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Many of you snotty nosed punks come here with all your problems and dump the **** on everyone. You come here and take all your emotional problems and make ridiculously longs posts about how you're such an AFC and you can't do ****.

Well, you know what?

You're damn right.

You can't possibly be the prize. The Alpha Male. And all that good stuff. You can't because you do not have experience. Many of you AFCs can be cured FOR LIFE. You do not need to learn any techniques, any gimmicks. You need not memorize anything. All you have to do is PRACTICE.

How many players can you tell me off the top of your head who are chumps. AFCs to be correct.

How many?


None.

Wanna know why?

Because they PLAY THE GAME. They go out into the field and they PRACTICE. They sucked at first. Many were horrible. Everyone was born weak, a loser, a little immature boy. Some stayed that way througut their life and became what we call an AFC. These are immature, girly-men. They got no experience talking to the ladies and get so few. They tend to be clingy mother****ers when they actually find a girl and swoon over her with poetry and ****.

But some guys grew out of it. They knew they sucked. They started out rough but they NEVER GAVE UP. Through trial and error.

The way to become a real man who is sucessful with the chicks is to go out and do as many as you can. Try different things and when you find that special thing that works for you, refine it. Keep refining it by going out and practicing on many b!tches as much as you can.

Who knows? Someday you might wake up and enjoy your life. You might wake up sucessful. Decide what you want to be and stick with it because people will try and sidetrack you. They will try to take your attention away. If you're going through hell, keep going.




And I will be taking this opportunity to say that I am not coming back. This is my last thread and I will answer all relevant questions people may have.

After this, I will leave for good. You guys can take this advice with a grain of salt. But remember one thing: You do not get good at the game by theorizing, you get good by practicing. So you can waste all your time discussing and pouring out your feelings into this dump that we call AFCinfested.net or you can admit that you need practice and get to it. You do not need to post all sorts of crap here about "how this convo went" and "what you guys think I should do". That just screams pathetic. Leave and live.

Your choice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So your advice is to get out there and practice? Well i admit that is good advice to a point, but you saying that theorizing isn't a good idea is pretty stupid.

Cavemen blindly went out and practiced... those who failed died, or were set back for awhile. These days we are intelligent. We can think and plan and THEN practice. There is nothing wrong with seeking advice so you can skip mistakes and set backs, there is nothing wrong from learning from others experiences and emulating that to see what works. Just aslong as you are doing something, aslong as you are out there.

And also for a thread pretending to show men how to be MEN, you seem to focus just on women. Is banging as many women as possible your idea of what makes a man? If so, then tell me, what is the stone age like?

I may have made a mistake in what i've said so please correct me if i have, i wish to learn. I afterall see the wisdom in asking others for advice and opinions.
 
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