How to be a jerk??

[Lostwithoutacost]

Im your typical nice guy, considerate, caring, forgiving, interesting with a large varied of hobbies, patient and loayl. But knowing that women like a bit of jerk mixed in with nice guy, what does a jerk do?

 

[shagnscoob]

if your the nice guy trying to be the jerk, i suggest you read the bible first.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

 

[Fender]

-double posted-

 

[Fender]

NOOOO! NOOOOO! NOOOOO!

Don't turn yourself into a jerk! Don't even try to. Ever heard that "Imitation is suicide"?

By just looking at the first sentance, I can tell what your problem is. You don't have enough confidence with yourself, and with women. You treat women like I treat my mom. And who can blame you? Society likes programming us men into little sacks of wuss.

I suggest you read some of Pooks posts in the bible like "Kill that desperation" and "Be a man!"

And most importantly, get out there and experiment!

-peace-

 

[Doctor Who]

The difference between you and a jerk is that the jerk doesn't care.

The jerk has confidence, because he doesn't put anythign on the line. He is confident and sure of himself. That being said, he is also a jerk. They get women, but eventually she will realize that the jerk is an empty shell of a person.

The Don Juan has all of the positive aspects that I just listed but has an actual personality. You can be considerate and chivalrous without being a total wuss. That is the DJ. Perfect blend of hardass edge with nice guy charm. Essentially, the complete man.

Shoot for that instead.