~UnDisputed~
Senior Don Juan
part 2 comin soon ya herd...
tha ace is back
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~rEpResEnt ThaT~
tha ace is back
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~rEpResEnt ThaT~
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How to Be a High School mogul...(pt. 1)~
- Thread starter ~UnDisputed~
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dario
Senior Don Juan
Kupopo! Nice post, Kupo!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
random afc
Senior Don Juan
sorry TBR, but you're like 2 years late on the post anyways. 
well that sux.
well that sux.PiHiPlaya
Master Don Juan
Where's Part 2?
~UnDisputed~
Senior Don Juan
lets bump it for the rookies
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
~UnDisputed~
Senior Don Juan
your missing the point.
the point is to look your best. that doesnt necesarily mean you have to be rich. you shouldnt care what people think, yet on the same token dont be a slob either.
being a mogul has nothing to do with monetary value, its about commanding respect. looking your best is a form of doing so.
the point is to look your best. that doesnt necesarily mean you have to be rich. you shouldnt care what people think, yet on the same token dont be a slob either.
being a mogul has nothing to do with monetary value, its about commanding respect. looking your best is a form of doing so.
Shiraz
Don Juan
i like it nice one..
Draguignan
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So if I buy a cetain brand of shoes, walk in a certain way, and have 2 friends I am a "mogul"? What a useless thread.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.