"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to be a gentleman with chivalry

diplomatic_lies

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Fvcking hell your a tosser. No wonder your mates are pushing you to internet date.
A tosser who's getting laid in about 3 hours, while you're sitting around complaining about women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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diplomatic_lies said:
A tosser who's getting laid in about 3 hours, while you're sitting around complaining about women.

Your a woman?

Thats twice now youve tried to qualify yourself to me, make it a 3rd time and I'll believe you, and next time learn the difference between me calling YOU out as a phony and chicks, no need to bring chicks into YOUR lameness. As much as you love to make extreme comparisons to make a non point I'm not fooled.
 

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its all fuking loser ideas......never pursue any of them until you get married..
 
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