EndlessNameless
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 9, 2023
- Messages
- 37
- Reaction score
- 22
I am a guy who's trying to get back in the game after a 10 year relationship and aiming at dating as many women as he can now.
The thing is I find the dating process quite exhausting, extremely time-consuming, and actually not compatible with the life of a high value man, which I believe I am living.
By high value man, I mean someone who has a well-paid job with high responsibilities, who has many passions in life (for me it's sports, music and skydiving) and who takes care of himself by working out several times a week. Each of these things requires a lot of time and discipline, and I can't see how it's possible to reconcile this lifestyle with the efforts and time required to have a satisfactory dating life in this modern world.
When I was married I could focus almost exclusively on my work and my passions because I thought that my love life was already taken care of (i guess I was wrong there and that may be one of the reasons my marriage failed). But at least I had this peace of mind which allowed me to dedicate my time on work and hobbies.
Now that I am single, I constantly think about finding new girls to date, taking care of the logistics for the dates I have planned, and how I am going to fvck the girls I am currently seeing. I think these thoughts are often distracting me from my work and disturbing my peace of mind, which are two things very important to me.
It seems to me that one needs to choose between being a DJ and being a true high value man. If you are a DJ, i.e. you date/fvck a lot of women, you may not be able to dedicate enough time to thrive in other areas of life. If you are a high value man, i.e you work a lot and you follow your passions, you may not have enough time left in your agenda to get some pvssy.
What are your thoughts on this ?
The thing is I find the dating process quite exhausting, extremely time-consuming, and actually not compatible with the life of a high value man, which I believe I am living.
By high value man, I mean someone who has a well-paid job with high responsibilities, who has many passions in life (for me it's sports, music and skydiving) and who takes care of himself by working out several times a week. Each of these things requires a lot of time and discipline, and I can't see how it's possible to reconcile this lifestyle with the efforts and time required to have a satisfactory dating life in this modern world.
When I was married I could focus almost exclusively on my work and my passions because I thought that my love life was already taken care of (i guess I was wrong there and that may be one of the reasons my marriage failed). But at least I had this peace of mind which allowed me to dedicate my time on work and hobbies.
Now that I am single, I constantly think about finding new girls to date, taking care of the logistics for the dates I have planned, and how I am going to fvck the girls I am currently seeing. I think these thoughts are often distracting me from my work and disturbing my peace of mind, which are two things very important to me.
It seems to me that one needs to choose between being a DJ and being a true high value man. If you are a DJ, i.e. you date/fvck a lot of women, you may not be able to dedicate enough time to thrive in other areas of life. If you are a high value man, i.e you work a lot and you follow your passions, you may not have enough time left in your agenda to get some pvssy.
What are your thoughts on this ?
Last edited: