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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to be a cool guy

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I think it would be a good idea to analyse cool guys. The ones that get all the girls and always have fun and party. In this thread I want you guys to give some characteristics and traits of cool guys.
Cool Guys:

They're -Relaxed
-Calm in hard situations
-Wear Sunglasses
-They have nice, in fashion cloth
-They have a good style for example, Collin Farrell has a relaxed, sexy bodylanguage and style, Johnny Depp aswell
-They play a musical instrument and are good at sports and outdoor activities
-They have good communication and social skills, for example they dont talk toooooo much or dance like monkeys to draw attention
-They're not shy and they have lots of confidence
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by TheCalmGuy
I think it would be a good idea to analyse cool guys. The ones that get all the girls and always have fun and party. In this thread I want you guys to give some characteristics and traits of cool guys.
Cool Guys:

They're -Relaxed
-Calm in hard situations
-Wear Sunglasses
-They have nice, in fashion cloth
-They have a good style for example, Collin Farrell has a relaxed, sexy bodylanguage and style, Johnny Depp aswell
-They play a musical instrument and are good at sports and outdoor activities
-They have good communication and social skills, for example they dont talk toooooo much or dance like monkeys to draw attention
-They're not shy and they have lots of confidence
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i have to disagree on some points:

1. don't know what's like in the usa, but here in italy, people who wear sunglasses are usually seen as posers or losers

2. johnny depp was a nerd, before becoming famous. colin farrell is cool, johnny depp is just handsome, but not cool at all.

3. the great majority of cool people i know are good at sport, but don't know sh1t about musical instruments


see ya
 
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Originally posted by TheCalmGuy
I think it would be a good idea to analyse cool guys. The ones that get all the girls and always have fun and party. In this thread I want you guys to give some characteristics and traits of cool guys.
Cool Guys:

They're -Relaxed
-Calm in hard situations
-Wear Sunglasses
-They have nice, in fashion cloth
-They have a good style for example, Collin Farrell has a relaxed, sexy bodylanguage and style, Johnny Depp aswell
-They play a musical instrument and are good at sports and outdoor activities
-They have good communication and social skills, for example they dont talk toooooo much or dance like monkeys to draw attention
-They're not shy and they have lots of confidence
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A) Do a search on this, this has been overdone buddy.
b) do a search on this, this has been overdone.
c) do a freaking search
d)

Do you not want to be an individual, dont you want to be someone different, make your own brand of cool. Do not emulate others, it just makes you appear more insecure and less cool. You want other people to emulate you. As i already said in a similar thread today. Its not what they do, but what the results of what they do makes others percieve them. Ie its not because they play sport, in fact some of the coolest guys i know have dropped all sports, its because they have nice toned bodies.

Being calm is good, but thats just symptomatic, they believe they are in control and they know it. Which is why they are arrogant. You want to be in control, you dont need to be calm, but it is one of the best ways of showing you are in control. Sunglasses end up making you look like you try to hard, if you can carry it off, then wear them, but only on really hot days. They set styles so of course they have in fashion, notice how fashion can be ripped jeans and a grubby, unironed shirt. Its a lot about how you wear it, noot what you own.

Dont look up to actors, its their job to give off an image, i bet they are not all as they appear. Do the same, give off an image.

The penultimate, that they dont dance or wall hang too much is just untrue. The last gives them the ability to do either and get away with it.

Just work on being who you want to be and all else will follow.
 
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First of all am european and not american, and JSH thanks for the advice, well said !
 
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Re: Re: How to be a cool guy

Originally posted by Jay-X
2. johnny depp was a nerd, before becoming famous. colin farrell is cool, johnny depp is just handsome, but not cool at all.
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sorry, but i must interject. johnny depp was not a nerd. he was the guy all the girls wanted. check out some early pics of him. if thats not cool ill eat my own nuts...

not seriously tho... im not that hungry ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're worried about **** like wearing sunglasses..... lol, read the bible again....
 
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Re: Re: Re: How to be a cool guy

Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
sorry, but i must interject. johnny depp was not a nerd. he was the guy all the girls wanted. check out some early pics of him. if thats not cool ill eat my own nuts...

not seriously tho... im not that hungry ;)
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dude, he was the geek guy in Nightmare I... if he was cool, i am tyler durden:D
 
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