"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to be a challenge to a woman have them chase you?

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How do I get the woman to chase me and be more interested in me?

I know to be ****y and funny as well as not be as available.

Other ideas like how do you act when hanging out with her etc...?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El Payaso

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Be confident.
 

PeasantPlayer

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Confidence is the biggest thing. I have low confident days and I hardly pull any women, then I have confident days and way more eye contact IOI from women
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skinnyguy

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I have found you don't need to be a ****y douche to get women to chase you.

You do need to be exciting, funny, and act like you have a lot of stuff going on. If women sense that you're desirable, they will chase you.
 

SeymourCake

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Money, power, and respect.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you want women to be interested in you. You must learn how to DRESS!! It's that simple!! F@ck everything else!! Don't buy no more sneakers from now on buy expensive loafers !! I don't care if your fat skinny ugly or handsome. A man who can dress can get any woman!!
 

Don-Kong

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skinnyguy said:
I have found you don't need to be a ****y douche to get women to chase you.

You do need to be exciting, funny, and act like you have a lot of stuff going on. If women sense that you're desirable, they will chase you.
Best advice so far.
Enjoy your life, enjoy being with lots of women. FOrget about 'trying' to get them interested in you. YOU ARE INTERESTING by way of being a DonJuan. Simple.
I am the sh1t. All these girls want a peice. Even if you are the ugliest, fattest, grossest smelliest retard on the planet, this is a winning attitude that will resonate into your thoughts, behaviours, vibe/energy and attract those poons like moths to the flame. Keep the mystery, take the p1ss, accept your limitations and flaws.

If you are short, embrace it. If you are fat embrace it. Girls love all sorts. SO love you too. Joy
 

Don-Kong

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I'm realising that you must be perceived as desirable, valuable like gold.

Being busy or creating the illusion of being busy says, I have a life and you're not in it. It could also suggest popularity.

If she knows other women are interested in you. This is good, even if they are friends because thus could be implied as 'he's liked by other women, he's safe or he's attractive or has a good personality'

It's all smoke and mirrors!
 
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