"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just wondering.....do you think there is a market for instructional books/videos for men who want to learn how to become better lovers? Or are most guys too proud to admit that they could use some pointers in the bedroom?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you kidding? There are already TONS of books and videos on that very subject. Go search Amazon to see what I mean.
 
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Specifically younger guys
 
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thatguyjamalx said:
Sounds like you're you gonna start making some gonzo porn? lol
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Well I do have semi-pro video equipment, might as well put it to good use!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I personally dont get all those books and instructional videos....especially being a "better" lover.

i mean if you know the basics, then it depends strictly on the girl you are with. Sex is strictly based on emotions. How do we read material that will tell us specifics and feeling that "connection" with whomever your with at the time?
 
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