How to avoid the Relationship

[MountainSlide]

Hey so just getting back into dating - smashing after a reasonably long break where I spent time working on my life, my self, and my purpose. So far got one plate locked down. Meet up with her once a week max for smash.

Now this girl from my work adds me onto facebook. So I accept and start chatting with her. But she keeps bringing up my flirting with her etc. I do. Because that’s who I am as a person haha. So I ask her to go for beers. She responds by questioning whether I’m asking her out. I haven’t responded to that yet because I really don’t want this going in the wrong direction. Or anyone catching feelings.

It isn’t a problem for my work if I hit her up. But I just don’t want to get tricked into any sort of relationship here.

What’s the strategy for spinning the plate without drama ??

 

[Serenity]

Just be upfront about it. Tell her you're not looking for anything serious, but don't mind having a good time. What else can you really do besides leading her on which could easily cause drama?

 

[Trump]

Her: “Are you asking me out?”
You: “Of course I am. I would hate a lovely girl like you to be alone Saturday night.”