How to avoid Facebook....?

[Loki.7]

I usually use POF to get new numbers, always the same story.... Blah blah blah. "Do you have Facebook?", they then check you out see if your legit, blah blah blah "your so sweet, this is my number. Give me a call or text".

Call me weak or whatever I always give in and add them, I ****ing hate adding girls a barely know to my Facebook. Hahaha I know it's no big deal, I know I'm moaning about nothing.....

But in my mind it's like an essential little trust step for the girl, gives them a chance to check me out before handing me their phone number.

Best way to stop these girls getting on their in the first place?

Tired not giving it but it always leads to a little distrust..... But when I add them to FB, about two messages later they usually give me their number without me even suggesting or asking.

Like I said not the worlds biggest problem.... But really who wants loads of girls they met on the net lurking on their FB.

 

[Vidrio]

You only have three options:

1) Delete it
2)Keep it but tell them you don't have one
3) Keep it and keep adding them

The choice is yours.

 

[HedoRick]

And your facebook page better be tight... lots of pics with other chicks and general DHV...

I will say that a bunch of POF chicks love collecting orbiting dudes. I would know, i've dated plenty of losers. My sister also is into the orbiter collecting ritual. Gotta love all the "princesses" out there.

I actually had to delete my facebook because the girls weren't playing nice with each other. Basically sending messages to one another and figuring out who went on a date with me that week. Once you get into spinning alot of plates, you may find that your better off without it.

 

[nroug7]

And your facebook page better be tight... lots of pics with other chicks and general DHV...

I will say that a bunch of POF chicks love collecting orbiting dudes. I would know, i've dated plenty of losers. My sister also is into the orbiter collecting ritual. Gotta love all the "princesses" out there.

I actually had to delete my facebook because the girls weren't playing nice with each other. Basically sending messages to one another and figuring out who went on a date with me that week. Once you get into spinning alot of plates, you may find that your better off without it.

I love when plates are well aware of each other, ups the tension

 

[Uncharted]

Just tell her you don't have it. Change your name to a nickname instead of your full name.

Facebook for me is for my actual friends, and I hardly even use it anyway.

If she "finds" it and brings it up just say "oh i thought i deleted it - and what are you some kinda stalker??"

 

[nroug7]

Just tell her you don't have it. Change your name to a nickname instead of your full name.

Facebook for me is for my actual friends, and I hardly even use it anyway.

If she "finds" it and brings it up just say "oh i thought i deleted it - and what are you some kinda stalker??"

YES
THE STALKER CARD.
THAT IS GOLD.
You've already established a frame if you get to pull that card.

 

[Randomer]

Just make sure that you have the settings set so that you have to approve anything before it gets posted to your wall...

 

[nroug7]

Just make sure that you have the settings set so that you have to approve anything before it gets posted to your wall...

Gold advice right here.

 

[rhythmic]

Facebook is trash, I have a mobile phone and Skype and they do just fine.

Ask yourself these:

What do I gain from my time on Facebook?
What do I see when I scroll down the news feed?
What has Facebook ever done for me?

I think it can probably be exploited if you have a jokey profile, which has just the most important people, a fake/nickname or something, but I really haven't considered it that much. I deleted mine and now I get more done and my interactions with people are more meaningful.

Some people will find it weird that you don't have a Facebook, though. The last time a chick called me on it I told her actually I'm still loving Myspace but I might make the switch in 2014, she thought that was hilarious.

 

[Loki.7]

Just make sure that you have the settings set so that you have to approve anything before it gets posted to your wall...

Yeah learned that a long time ago. Nobody can post **** on my wall completely on lockdown. Had this one girl that was ****ing tagging me in every interaction, Loki is at the "the love shack having dinner", "watching a film on the sofa", Loki is "taking a dump at my house" . **** got annoying, told her to stop. Never happened, so Loki went on lockdown.

I don't post **** on facebook, no pictures, no status updates. I'd deleted it but its pretty essential for keeping in contact with loads of good friends that have moved away.

I might try the "Facebook is only for my close friends and I don't know you well enough for that yet. How about you give me your number and you can work on getting that invite in person".

 

[Loki.7]

I can get one everytime I go on there.... It's piss easy mate.

"Hey I just spied on your profile and thought you looked adorable. Just thought I'd say "hi".

Spam out that to about 10 fresh girls I like the look of.

Who ever gives the best responce I target. I usually go deep, I generally enjoy getting inside a girls head and understanding them. Guess they get wet for it.

 

[Loki.7]

How many women have you e-mailed?

I've joined 'em all at one point: POF, OKC, Match, Cougarlife.com...have emailed thousands of women over the years, women of ALL ages, too...and have NEVER been asked once about Facebook.

Makes no sense to me.

Actually I think I know why.... I never ask for numbers or even hint it. I'd rather them ask me, guess they do it for fear of me getting bored with talking to them and don't want the guy who has worked the out just to fizzle out.

 

[twentee]

it's easy. Just dont HAVE a Facebook account. FB is too damned sloppy with your info, so unless your livelihood requires it., why risk having one?

 

[BeDJ]

Cougarlife.com?

Online dating.
Specifically for.
Post-wall women.

 

[Loki.7]

it's easy. Just dont HAVE a Facebook account. FB is too damned sloppy with your info, so unless your livelihood requires it., why risk having one?

It is sloppy (not that makes no difference) and it's important I have it.... Got essential contacts on it.

Like I said it's not a big deal, I just wanted a view on how I can bypass Internet chicks getting onto it. Was just looking for a few ideas.

I'll just refuse entry in the future see how that plays out.

 

[Velor]

Facebook is evil
What i did is changing my password into something like oaifbavloav, wrote it down on paper and then placed it somewhere where it's hard to get, im planning on forgetting totally about that ****ing site
About dates i guess ill just give my number, my profile is there if the chicks want to check me out, but that's all
Bros that site is pure futility and uselessness