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How do you guys do this and keep girls on their feet? How do you guys usually snag em to get exculsive?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to avoid a relationship becoming habital and predictable. and How doyou get them?
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thelonewolflegend
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and establish your frame
Dgwizdal
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Read the DJ bible you f*ckin retard.
narcissist
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Dgwizdal again.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thelonewolflegend
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ive been reading the dj bible and stuff but I am saying like what do you guys do with a woman when relationship I am trying to figure out because I am hearing things like get gifts women and people say don't do stuff for women so I don't know I am kind of confused on that part as well as being mysterious or not available this one girl was saying she be mad if wasn't able to see her so I am just trying to figure this out you know?
Dgwizdal
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No I don't f*ckin know because I'm not a degenerate brain-dead mongoloid such as yourself and have retained what I have learned you will forever be a involuntarily celibate lonewolf because you are too stupid to get laid do what the DJ Bible says not what society and your woman says you sh!t-eating fvckhead get fvcked.thelonewolflegend said:
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Look dude I have gotten laid and been with women I have just had some mental downfalls AFC issues and trouble understanding the women ok. I just want to ****ing understand what to keep a woman because what they say is just be yourself and have a good time that's what I do and did but Yeah it wasn't perfect but god damn no one is perfect I am just trying to get this known!
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Holy Sh1t!!!thelonewolflegend said:
You actually know how to make decent sentences?
And why the fuuck are you not always putting your ideas in a readable form every single time you post?
Do you understand this is why people are treating you like a retard?
You are doing things on purpose that are causing people to completely disregard you.
On purpose...
Some people can't help this, you actually can, but decide not to.
Fix this problem before you even start to think about where your peniis goes. Because right now you can't even use your own brain right, much less another persons vagiina.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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What problems, and how do I do the things I asked?
Bible_Belt
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OP probably went to public school in St Louis, a city which is about 1/2 urban wasteland sh!thole that looks like Detroit. You can't expect everyone in the world to convey themselves well with written words.
And to the OP, I would guess that you have difficulty relating to people in general. You need to work on your interactions with people and that will help you with women. Try to get better at understanding what people are thinking as they talk to you.
And to the OP, I would guess that you have difficulty relating to people in general. You need to work on your interactions with people and that will help you with women. Try to get better at understanding what people are thinking as they talk to you.
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Yeah its hard to tell because the girl I was seeing was pretty much saying everything I wanted to hear besides the time she complained and the time we broke up you know? So I guess tell by how she is looking or body language or something?
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You need to preoccupy yourself at least a little bit with how people perceive you. I know everyone says don't worry what people think be yourself. You do have to worry what people think.thelonewolflegend said:
-If your boss thinks you're an idiot but you are the smartest guy there you will be fired.
-If a girl thinks you are an idiot but you have 1,000,000 in the bank with an 18" rod you will be dumped.
Perception is more important than reality. <== True story
So when you post you need to put time into your post and word it properly so people see this and respect your post and try to help you. Sometimes I see your posts and want to reply to them, but I won't because I think you will not even understand what I am saying. Because your grammar is so bad I think you will not understand it either because you are not intelligent or speak a foreign language as a primary. So why waste the time?
When you are with a woman you need to think about your actions and apply logic to them so everything does not have to be explained to you like as if you were a 5 year old.
You asked how to avoid a relationship being predictable?
Do different stuff!
What do you usually do with your girl?
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well I didn't do a whole lot but things seemed fine we hung out and went dinner n stuff but I mean im gonna try to different things If I get a new girl n all im just trying to figure out like when I should do gifts or want to open up more etc... or should be challenge mysterious
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maximus Rex
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Therein lies your problem, bruh.
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Therein lies your problem, bruh.
Never buy a girl gifts unless you have been with her for a long time and it's her birthday or christmas or something of the sort. Always be mysterous even after you are exclusive, and never open up completely. These are all basic things that are posted over and over in the threads, if you spend a little more time reading whats been said over and over you won't have to ask so many questions . It seems like you get a lot of dates and them screw them up right away, if you have a game plan prepared you won't have these problems. Just read Mauser96's thread it sums everything you should already know up.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216793
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216793
A woman will only date a man who she thinks her peers would want to date. We make the mistake of thinking we'll find "that one", but it's more like the MLB Batting Champion top 10, where percentage points separate #1 from #2, and one hit can change it. You ultimately have to sacrifice some other options and literally settle, down - so girls can not settle, up.
Guys, if the girl you're talking about is twice as nice as your next option, you're probably dreaming. Even if you aren't, eventually those two girls will talk. The guy they both agree on will seem better.
Guys, if the girl you're talking about is twice as nice as your next option, you're probably dreaming. Even if you aren't, eventually those two girls will talk. The guy they both agree on will seem better.