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How to avoid a challenger?

DJ HOSSIX

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This girl and i lately have became really closed. I used a lot of tips on the site to accomplish this. I showed her that i am the prize, that i have confidence, i used a lot of kino, and some C&F. Everything was going good. There was a lot of attraction occuring. We both would play hard to get which everytime made us want each other more. But there is this One guy who this girl disliked and used to talk a mess load of sh** about. Yesterday there was a gathering at the park where we all were at and so was this guy. I was playing vollyball with my friends when i saw her approaching me yet i kept it cool and paid more attention to the game than her. She approached me with this guy tagging along with her and her best friend. By the way this guy is a total loser who probably in the long run will turn out to be a child molester. Anyways i said whats up to her and so forth. Then she went off to the dance floor with this guy. As i was playing vollyball i kept seeing them hugging each other and dancing. But i kept my cool yet i was really pissed and wanted to knock his emo ass out. I didnt know what was going on because last time i remembered me and her where cuddiling by the beach. Even though she told me this guy is like her brother yet her voice tone didnt make me feel assured. This guy likes her but hes a fag.

How do i reassure this girl that I AM THE PRIZE. That this guy is a fony. To make her know that no other guy is going to upstand to me cause u wont find anyone that will compare to me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Actually my friend money never resemebles anyone as the prize onless your dealing with a gold digga. Being the prize is having the girl feel secure weather you are around or not. After all isnt that one condition of Love, feeling secure. At this event she was still with me the whole time not to get me wrong. She wasnt ignoring me and just flirting with this guy. But still she never played around with many guys or flirted with many guys. She knows i hate this guys guts but yet it felt like she wanted to spark up some jealousy. It was like she was trying to get my jealous the whole day. One of the methods i used on this site was gettin the girl i wanted jealous by showing her how many girls are affectionate towards me yet keeping some attention on her trying to prove a point. And everytime i did it she would do something for payback.

So is she trying to out play my game?

Btw im sure she doesnt want to fvck him.

Just be yourself? You should read the tip on "being oneself" on the sosuave homepage.

True violence doesnt get anyone anywhere.


What are good tips on eliminating this guy from her circle.
 

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without killing him, theres not much you can do. Stop the jealousy.
 

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Women generally don't like too much kino

Kino = Disrespect

Keep your hands to yourself!

Be a gentleman.

She had to take her best friend and the guy who's stalking her along to get to you so she won't look desperate.

Personally, it's pathetic that the other dude has to escort her to you. When you first saw her, you should have stopped playing what did you say? volleyball, and approached and greeted her instead.

When women sense that a man is playing hard to get which is an indication of a p*ssy, she WILL move on. Real men are go-getters, not boys who wait around to be approached.
 
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Espi said:
FYI: Whenever a girl talks about a guy, even if it's negative, chances are she wants to fvck him. That was your first hint. You should have known she wants him rather than you.

I would forget her and move to another target. It perplexes me to no end why you want to kick this guy's butt...waste of time and energy.
Yeah. This happened to me, I didn't realize it until it was too late. No big loss to me though.

Oh well, looks like you're screwed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blueangel83 said:
Women generally don't like too much kino

Kino = Disrespect

Keep your hands to yourself!

Be a gentleman.

She had to take her best friend and the guy who's stalking her along to get to you so she won't look desperate.

Personally, it's pathetic that the other dude has to escort her to you. When you first saw her, you should have stopped playing what did you say? volleyball, and approached and greeted her instead.

When women sense that a man is playing hard to get which is an indication of a p*ssy, she WILL move on. Real men are go-getters, not boys who wait around to be approached.

Oh, what a tangled web we weave.

Soo many mistakes. You pretty much screwed up the whole thing. You have no chance at this point. Just get some experience from this whole 'dealie-o' and don't make similar mistakes with the next girl.
 
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