"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to Attract women...Part IV

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Now for the good stuff.....

The approach...

But before I get into the "how to's" of approaching, I'd like to make sure that you understand the importance of direct eye contact.......Alot of guys say they really do make good eye contact but I bet they don't......If they did, they'd get alot more attention than what they're getting now........

Eye contact says "I like you, I am attracted to you"........I guess it's human nature to like who likes us, that's why this works so well. It's perfectly natural to want to be seen as somebody attractive and interesting. It could be called "Reciprocation", ie; "you like me, I like you".....

When a man does this to a woman it has a very powerful effect on her, She instinctively thinks any man who finds her so attractive must have good taste.

Remember, don't stare.....it'll just make a woman uncomfortable.....

There are two types of "look" you can give a woman.....one is a "puppy dog" look that says "I love you, PLEASE LOVE ME".....

The other one is the "Tiger" look that says "I'D LIKE TO EAT YOU ALIVE".....

The "Tiger" look will always get better results......Why? A puppy needs you, is dependent on you and is pathetic. The tiger, on the other hand, is confident, self assured, and depends on nothing but himself! He has no master!

The biggest screw-up most guys make is coming across to a woman as weak, and needy. They get like a puppy, always there for them, doing anything they can to please them, doing favors, giving flowers, blah, blah, blah........

Believe me, from years of experience, women want a Tiger....they want it real bad!

Now, how to approach.......It's simple, don't use idiotic pick-up lines.......Once you've made "Tiger" eye contact, just go up and calmly say, "Excuse me, but I couldn't help but notice you.....I'd like to introduce myself, may I try?".....

That's all there is to it....simple and to the point. At this point, never, and I mean NEVER take your eyes off of theirs.....it works so good it's almost criminal!

She may be married, engaged, seeing a steady boyfriend, or may be a lesbian......Any of these things could get you rejected. But you made contact. And you tried.

Wanna know something else?......She won't forget you!

SO....

GET OFF YOUR ASS! STOP BEING A WEAK-KNEED WIMPYFIED BABY!!! STOP BEING AFRAID OF REJECTION!! MOMMIES BOYS ARE AFRAID OF REJECTION! A MASCULINE MAN GOES AFTER WHAT HE WANTS!!!THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A TIGER!!!!

Incidently, all of the above is how I met my wife at a mall, she adores me.........

SIEZE THE DAY!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You got it my friend! There are some main triggers that all women have and the eye thing ranks right on top. If you get good at it your eyes can speak in oh so many ways. The lasting impression that this leaves is astounding.You can be both suggestive and expressive with them , you should always observe a woman's eyes to see if you are effecting them in a favorable manner. Alway look them directly in the eye it kills them I have gotten so many woman with my deep blue "Lady Killers" it is unbelievable. I am told that my eyes are lethal. Work at it and take this Don Juan's advice he knows of what he speaks.

Originally posted by bondjamesbond:
Now for the good stuff.....

The approach...

But before I get into the "how to's" of approaching, I'd like to make sure that you understand the importance of direct eye contact.......Alot of guys say they really do make good eye contact but I bet they don't......If they did, they'd get alot more attention than what they're getting now........

Eye contact says "I like you, I am attracted to you"........I guess it's human nature to like who likes us, that's why this works so well. It's perfectly natural to want to be seen as somebody attractive and interesting. It could be called "Reciprocation", ie; "you like me, I like you".....

When a man does this to a woman it has a very powerful effect on her, She instinctively thinks any man who finds her so attractive must have good taste.

Remember, don't stare.....it'll just make a woman uncomfortable.....

There are two types of "look" you can give a woman.....one is a "puppy dog" look that says "I love you, PLEASE LOVE ME".....

The other one is the "Tiger" look that says "I'D LIKE TO EAT YOU ALIVE".....

The "Tiger" look will always get better results......Why? A puppy needs you, is dependent on you and is pathetic. The tiger, on the other hand, is confident, self assured, and depends on nothing but himself! He has no master!

The biggest screw-up most guys make is coming across to a woman as weak, and needy. They get like a puppy, always there for them, doing anything they can to please them, doing favors, giving flowers, blah, blah, blah........

Believe me, from years of experience, women want a Tiger....they want it real bad!

Now, how to approach.......It's simple, don't use idiotic pick-up lines.......Once you've made "Tiger" eye contact, just go up and calmly say, "Excuse me, but I couldn't help but notice you.....I'd like to introduce myself, may I try?".....

That's all there is to it....simple and to the point. At this point, never, and I mean NEVER take your eyes off of theirs.....it works so good it's almost criminal!

She may be married, engaged, seeing a steady boyfriend, or may be a lesbian......Any of these things could get you rejected. But you made contact. And you tried.

Wanna know something else?......She won't forget you!

SO....

GET OFF YOUR ASS! STOP BEING A WEAK-KNEED WIMPYFIED BABY!!! STOP BEING AFRAID OF REJECTION!! MOMMIES BOYS ARE AFRAID OF REJECTION! A MASCULINE MAN GOES AFTER WHAT HE WANTS!!!THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A TIGER!!!!

Incidently, all of the above is how I met my wife at a mall, she adores me.........

SIEZE THE DAY!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by bondjamesbond:
Now for the good stuff.....

The approach...

But before I get into the "how to's" of approaching, I'd like to make sure that you understand the importance of direct eye contact.......Alot of guys say they really do make good eye contact but I bet they don't......If they did, they'd get alot more attention than what they're getting now........

Eye contact says "I like you, I am attracted to you"........I guess it's human nature to like who likes us, that's why this works so well. It's perfectly natural to want to be seen as somebody attractive and interesting. It could be called "Reciprocation", ie; "you like me, I like you".....

When a man does this to a woman it has a very powerful effect on her, She instinctively thinks any man who finds her so attractive must have good taste.

Remember, don't stare.....it'll just make a woman uncomfortable.....

There are two types of "look" you can give a woman.....one is a "puppy dog" look that says "I love you, PLEASE LOVE ME".....

The other one is the "Tiger" look that says "I'D LIKE TO EAT YOU ALIVE".....

The "Tiger" look will always get better results......Why? A puppy needs you, is dependent on you and is pathetic. The tiger, on the other hand, is confident, self assured, and depends on nothing but himself! He has no master!

The biggest screw-up most guys make is coming across to a woman as weak, and needy. They get like a puppy, always there for them, doing anything they can to please them, doing favors, giving flowers, blah, blah, blah........

Believe me, from years of experience, women want a Tiger....they want it real bad!

Now, how to approach.......It's simple, don't use idiotic pick-up lines.......Once you've made "Tiger" eye contact, just go up and calmly say, "Excuse me, but I couldn't help but notice you.....I'd like to introduce myself, may I try?".....

That's all there is to it....simple and to the point. At this point, never, and I mean NEVER take your eyes off of theirs.....it works so good it's almost criminal!

She may be married, engaged, seeing a steady boyfriend, or may be a lesbian......Any of these things could get you rejected. But you made contact. And you tried.

Wanna know something else?......She won't forget you!

SO....

GET OFF YOUR ASS! STOP BEING A WEAK-KNEED WIMPYFIED BABY!!! STOP BEING AFRAID OF REJECTION!! MOMMIES BOYS ARE AFRAID OF REJECTION! A MASCULINE MAN GOES AFTER WHAT HE WANTS!!!THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A TIGER!!!!

Incidently, all of the above is how I met my wife at a mall, she adores me.........

SIEZE THE DAY!!!!!!
Reminds me of a bacardi commercial :)
"You're a tiger!"

Anyway, seems like something I have to try.
Thanks for the tip!
 

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Down there

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Let me give you a few pointers bond, james bond that is…hahahahaha

The "Tiger" look will always get better results
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Excuse me
This is a good way to get her attention. But it shouldn't always be used to start the approach. Some situations may require saying that and some may not.

but I couldn't help but notice you
I suggest not saying that. It's too much to say and it's just an implied "pick-up" line. You said yourself that pick-up lines shouldn't be used. Cut that part out and you'll do just fine.

I'd like to introduce myself
Cut this part out too. You don't need to tell her you're going to introduce yourself, just do it. Show your confidence.

may I try?
Same goes for this statement, just do it. Don't ask for her permission. You're a "Tiger" remember, don't act like a "puppy dog".

Incidentally, all of the above is how I met my wife at a mall, she adores me.........
Yes, not all girls will reject you for saying what you said in the initial approach. But if you want to be a player (I'm talking to everybody else in this forum and you if a player is what you strive to be) you're going to have to act like one, and in time you'll become one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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