bondjamesbond
Don Juan
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I'm back......OK, here goes...
1. Your attitude......This says alot about who you are....do you get discouraged easily? If so, then you'll have a tough time attracting anybody (guy friends included).....You must have a life with some passions and ambitions....Hobbies and interests are good......Are you in shape?....Most nice girls are pretty turned off by a fat, flabby, lazy toad. Do you spend alot of time on the couch watching TV while eating a family size sack of oreo's? If so, you really need to change your ways. Start jogging and lifting a few weights. It'll get you in better shape and give you a much better outlook on life. You don't need to be a "workout warrior", just enough to do the job.
Do you like your job? If it sucks then go for something better.....I know this is easier said than done but a rotten job can really drag you down. Women love an ambitious guy! In short, do everything you can to start LIKING YOURSELF......It'll show, and girls will pick up on it....
2. Don't be TOO picky! This is one of the major reasons why there are so many lonely adults everywhere. They demand pefection. Perfect looks. Perfect background, etc.,.....Most of the women you approach will have looks that fall somewhere between Cindy Crawford and the Goodyear Blimp. Real hot chicks are very powerful, and they know it. They turn alot of heads and get used to it. If you want to attract super-hot babes, get ready for a ton of competition. May not be fair, but who says life is fair? As for myself, I always looked for a good, clean, healthy appearance; nice teeth and smile, being just a tad overweight was OK, and lovely hands. Don't make the mistake of cutting yourself out of some good times just 'cause a girl doesn't look like a model. Nobody wants to go out with somebody who resembles a lineman for the Green Bay Packers, I know. But stop expecting Miss Perfect!
3. Be an optimistic MAN WITH BALLS! You're not gay, are you? Then don't be ashamed of being masculine and approaching women! Stop worrying about appearing "obnoxious" when you approach a girl....besides, they love it! You think she'll hit ya? Scream for the cops? Not if you do it politely. You can't be a scared, chicken-hearted bastard and expect to get anywhere with woman. You must have confidence and self assurance. A wimpy guy gets rejected and goes home pulling the covers over his head and whining that "girls just don't like me"......The tough SOB gets turned down, shruggs it off, goes out with his buddies and has a good laugh over it. So whatever you do, grow up, get a life, and get some hard bark on yourself!
4. Have a good sense of humor-------This, I believe, is the most important thing about yourself that you can develop. If you can get women to laugh then you have it made. It indicates supreme confidence and optimism. Everybody likes a guy with a good wit. I've never been a Republican, but I really liked President Reagan. Know why? I thought he was funny, he was charming and could make me laugh.....I didn't give a crap what his policies were! Humor is like paint, it covers alot.....
5. Getting infatuated and falling in love/lust.......We all know the feeling; we see a gorgeous creature, we smile at her....she smiles back......you go for a little more contact; she gives you some good feedback.....you just can't wait to see her again; she seems pleased to see you......you go a little further; you don't want to come on too strong.......finally, you're about to bust and just have to tell her how great you think she is and what a crush you have on her and how you think it would be great to get together, and,........she suddenly turns colder than a year old corpse! You back off, wait a while to see if she misses you.............She treats you like a leper, is annoyed that you're even in the same country as she is........What do you do?
Alot of guys can't handle this, they go off the deep-end, get depressed, get angry, and start saying stuff like "F**k all broads!, who need 'em!" "They're all a**holes anyway!"
.......The trouble with guys like this is that they get infatuated and smitten with somebody they hardly even know and get way too carried away. If you behave this way when some chick gives you the brush-off, then you're probably not too happy to begin with. I've always felt that women are "icing on the cake"; makes life a hell of alot better, but certainly not essential to my happiness. No woman on earth can make you that happy, ask any married guy, he'll tell you the same thing!
So get a life, get tough, be independent, see the humor in things and NEVER FORGET:
LIFE IS SHORT! YOU'RE GOING TO SOMEDAY BE LOOKING AT THE GRASS FROM THE 'ROOTS SIDE'......DON'T SPEND YOUR PRODUCTIVE, 'HARD ****' YEARS BEING A SOFT, OVER-SENSITIVE BABY!!!!!!
SIEZE THE GODDAMN DAY!!!!!!
Next: Part III
1. Your attitude......This says alot about who you are....do you get discouraged easily? If so, then you'll have a tough time attracting anybody (guy friends included).....You must have a life with some passions and ambitions....Hobbies and interests are good......Are you in shape?....Most nice girls are pretty turned off by a fat, flabby, lazy toad. Do you spend alot of time on the couch watching TV while eating a family size sack of oreo's? If so, you really need to change your ways. Start jogging and lifting a few weights. It'll get you in better shape and give you a much better outlook on life. You don't need to be a "workout warrior", just enough to do the job.
Do you like your job? If it sucks then go for something better.....I know this is easier said than done but a rotten job can really drag you down. Women love an ambitious guy! In short, do everything you can to start LIKING YOURSELF......It'll show, and girls will pick up on it....
2. Don't be TOO picky! This is one of the major reasons why there are so many lonely adults everywhere. They demand pefection. Perfect looks. Perfect background, etc.,.....Most of the women you approach will have looks that fall somewhere between Cindy Crawford and the Goodyear Blimp. Real hot chicks are very powerful, and they know it. They turn alot of heads and get used to it. If you want to attract super-hot babes, get ready for a ton of competition. May not be fair, but who says life is fair? As for myself, I always looked for a good, clean, healthy appearance; nice teeth and smile, being just a tad overweight was OK, and lovely hands. Don't make the mistake of cutting yourself out of some good times just 'cause a girl doesn't look like a model. Nobody wants to go out with somebody who resembles a lineman for the Green Bay Packers, I know. But stop expecting Miss Perfect!
3. Be an optimistic MAN WITH BALLS! You're not gay, are you? Then don't be ashamed of being masculine and approaching women! Stop worrying about appearing "obnoxious" when you approach a girl....besides, they love it! You think she'll hit ya? Scream for the cops? Not if you do it politely. You can't be a scared, chicken-hearted bastard and expect to get anywhere with woman. You must have confidence and self assurance. A wimpy guy gets rejected and goes home pulling the covers over his head and whining that "girls just don't like me"......The tough SOB gets turned down, shruggs it off, goes out with his buddies and has a good laugh over it. So whatever you do, grow up, get a life, and get some hard bark on yourself!
4. Have a good sense of humor-------This, I believe, is the most important thing about yourself that you can develop. If you can get women to laugh then you have it made. It indicates supreme confidence and optimism. Everybody likes a guy with a good wit. I've never been a Republican, but I really liked President Reagan. Know why? I thought he was funny, he was charming and could make me laugh.....I didn't give a crap what his policies were! Humor is like paint, it covers alot.....
5. Getting infatuated and falling in love/lust.......We all know the feeling; we see a gorgeous creature, we smile at her....she smiles back......you go for a little more contact; she gives you some good feedback.....you just can't wait to see her again; she seems pleased to see you......you go a little further; you don't want to come on too strong.......finally, you're about to bust and just have to tell her how great you think she is and what a crush you have on her and how you think it would be great to get together, and,........she suddenly turns colder than a year old corpse! You back off, wait a while to see if she misses you.............She treats you like a leper, is annoyed that you're even in the same country as she is........What do you do?
Alot of guys can't handle this, they go off the deep-end, get depressed, get angry, and start saying stuff like "F**k all broads!, who need 'em!" "They're all a**holes anyway!"
.......The trouble with guys like this is that they get infatuated and smitten with somebody they hardly even know and get way too carried away. If you behave this way when some chick gives you the brush-off, then you're probably not too happy to begin with. I've always felt that women are "icing on the cake"; makes life a hell of alot better, but certainly not essential to my happiness. No woman on earth can make you that happy, ask any married guy, he'll tell you the same thing!
So get a life, get tough, be independent, see the humor in things and NEVER FORGET:
LIFE IS SHORT! YOU'RE GOING TO SOMEDAY BE LOOKING AT THE GRASS FROM THE 'ROOTS SIDE'......DON'T SPEND YOUR PRODUCTIVE, 'HARD ****' YEARS BEING A SOFT, OVER-SENSITIVE BABY!!!!!!
SIEZE THE GODDAMN DAY!!!!!!
Next: Part III