"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to attract women - by a sociopath

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Hi there.

You may be thinking "What does a sociopath have to do with attracting women?" Let's dive right in...

The universal concept of this forum is to become better with the ladies. Although from the looks of it, most are staggering around like a chicken with their head cut off, despite this pipeline of information known as the "DJ Bible". You don't really need that thing. If anything, it's counter-productive. It's intentions are noble, there's no question about that. The problem is, there's so much information the first thing most people do is tell others "Go read the Bible." This is a crucial error for the new guys who are already overwhelmed with their new adventure they're about to embark on.

Instead of giving someone a link to temporary gratification, let's give them a permanent solution - alter your mind, flip your personality. Forget about looks, height, income, social status, so on and so forth, yada yada.

So how do you attract women?

First thing to remember is, you're flying solo. Forget the wingmen, we're solitary birds of prey who hunt alone.

Secondly, do not be confident. Be narcissistic. Have a completely over-inflated sense of self-worth in your own mind. Do not verbally cue anyone in on this with arrogance. In time it will gradually radiate to those around you.

Let's not forget, 38% is tonality 55% is body language, and words account for about 7%.

You can use this in your favor, you have options. Experiment with psychology. Manipulate it to your liking.

Nothing like a good cold approach to get the circulation going. These are the most rewarding for me. Nothing like netting a random little hottie. My friends are like "Man, where did you meet her?" The best part is when I reply nonchalantly with "Struck up some small talk and grabbed her number." Gives me a boner every time.

A technique you'll want to keep in your arsenal contrary to popular belief is the "AFC". Nothing wrong with throwing in some bullsh!t every now and then to keep her honest. Think of yourself as a chameleon here. One day you're telling her what she wants to hear, maybe some sporadic compliments, perhaps you show her some affection. The next day, carry on as usual. Change your colors. We're never stagnant. You can masquerade your personality at will, and consider yourself clever for doing so.

And don't be afraid to keep her happy, because it will keep you happy. And you're the priority here.

You brought me fame and fortune and everything that goes with it,
I thank you all
::double clutch::
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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Sound words from someone who's obviously never read the DJ Bible. For those of us who want more than trendy, hip-hop highschool bytches, there is this thing called 'game,' and this mentality called 'being a MAN.' You might be a 'playa' but being a real man is WAY harder, and way more rewarding.
 

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Ok...my advice to everyone is not to take advice from a sociopath.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Ok...my advice to everyone is not to take advice from a sociopath.
good advise, here comes myone:

NEVER LISTEN TO THEIR WORDS,
JUST LOOK THE WAY THEY ACT !!!

Sociophats are today under ASP, combained with more PDs = total Loonies

takecareoutthere !
 

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Two quick points that are just screaming at me...

1) While there is no substitute for experience, the reason we tell newbies (such as yourself) to read the DJ bible is so that they understand the theory and can then put into practice; i.e. knowing what they're doing before they attempt to do it. Narcissism is not self-confidence anymore than being a proffessional bowler is a testament to personal athleticism or reciting worn platitudes equates to thinking philosophically.

2) The sociopath derives personal gratification to nullify their nagging inferiorities from the attention gained through manipulation of others. The self-actualized person (the DJ in this forum's vernacular) derives personal gratification from the achievements gained through the exercise of his willpower over himself. The sociopath needs people. The DJ does not. You tell me who is worthier of admiration.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainJ

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No thanks, I'd rather be a man.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
If you're a sociopath this can work.
i agree :cheer:
 

yuppaz

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The thing we can learn from sociopaths is that OUTWARDLY (to other people) they think highly of themselves. That benefits them in many ways, but INWARDLY they only get worth by seeing themselves as more valyable then others or massively inferior. Best way is outwardly showing the true confidence and self esteem you feel on the inside.
 
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