How to attract women as a loner

[Silko]

I'm rather a loner. I'm very aware about that and I'm also comfy with myself.

I dont like to spend too much time in bars doing ... nothing. I'm more into using my time for my passions ... what actually create attraction.

Passion attracts. People with passions tend to be loners. It's not a disease. It's power. It's a quality.

 

[ubercat]

Basically comes down to if u want to be a lon er or not. If your happy that way don't give a fcvk what the world says. However the OP said he was doing nothing on his days off not spending them on his interests

 

[Asmodeus]

This is true. Women have some weird fascination with serial killers . Goes to show how ****ed up in the head they are I guess.

I'd play up the chainsaw killer thing and have fun with it tbh. Who gives a sh*t what a b*tch thinks at the end of the day?

The bad boy loner thing is my primary MO. And it works. You become mysterious. Women love that.

Problem with OP is not being a loner. It is his lack of confidence and his mindset.

I approach women fearlessly. You have nothing to fear from women. Very few outright reject me in a b!tchy way. Most at least have some fun conversation and are welcoming and friendly even if they are not interested. I have learned that women are social and like meeting new people especially men as women like to have as many options open to them as possible. OP just needs to overcome his fear of approaching. Wonen are not that hard to approach, I don't know why people make such a big deal about it.

 

[Slash Dolo]

The bad boy loner thing is my primary MO. And it works. You become mysterious. Women love that.

Problem with OP is not being a loner. It is his lack of confidence and his mindset.

I approach women fearlessly. You have nothing to fear from women. Very few outright reject me in a b!tchy way. Most at least have some fun conversation and are welcoming and friendly even if they are not interested. I have learned that women are social and like meeting new people especially men as women like to have as many options open to them as possible. OP just needs to overcome his fear of approaching. Wonen are not that hard to approach, I don't know why people make such a big deal about it.

Same. I think I suggested on here a while back that you roll with it. Glad it's working.

 

[sambwoy]

Correct.

Women don't give a sh!t how many friends you have. They care about what you can do for THEM. That is it.

Try talking to them online when you have a problem. They'll just play on your insecurities more with their use of language, making crazy assumptions. Thinking they'll use logic is a tragic mistake.
I volunteer with married women and guys of various ages and we get (or at least I do) our satisfaction by what we do for the community and that is all. We don't speak celeb magazine drivel or get in this web of looks like the youngsters do.

 

[Epicwinguy]

My opinion: you haven't gotten rid of the Highschool and college mentality about what girls want. Yes in HS and College it's primarily about popularity.

Today, I know quite a few loners that do reasonably well. It's true that the more of a loner they are, the more they heavily depends on Online Dating, which is fully made up of toxic women. So, you should "cure" being a loner, but don't lose all hope in the meantime.

I still am mostly only attracted to, and regularly interact with, girls 18-25