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Don Juan
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I haven't posted up for a while. While I've been trying to post more in my Field Report Thread, I've had very little time to complete and finish up on that, but have been keeping a regular updated blog-version for my own review and progress which will be viewable to you all soon. I've gotten really good since I started my cold approaching, but now I have another sticking point.
I can attract the girls roughly from 6-7. For me, a 6 is a chick I would bang but wouldn't readily want anyone to know I did. This can be anything from having an average face, but bangable body. A 7 for me, would be a cute face and a bangable body but with all the former ranks, they can have a 10 plus body. These are the ones I've been getting recently.
Now, I'm at the crossroads. I've probably approached over 100 women since starting my journal. This includes the clubs and street game. I've grown enormous social balls, banged a few of my cold approaches (so far 7) and have gotten very few day2's. My trouble is the 8's and 9's. I can't help but have a limiting belief that these girls are out of my league and the chances of us hooking up are non-existant.
What is the best way to attract the 8's and 9's? I know that you should be treating them like ordinary and the same as every other girl, but there must be some underlying factor in order to seal-the-deal with them. Sometimes, looking back at the approaches and a recent club-to-street approach, I had a small ephiphany about it. I failed, well I didn't man-up and ask or escalate for her number, but I felt that I improved for just busting through her shields and stepping up to defeating my non-comfort zone.
Now, I have to make this a re-occurent theme in my game. For a Cold Approach (not Social Circle), how can you advance yourself for the hottest girls. Approaching is not the factor, what to say is not the factor, but what are the factors, there must be some ulterior factor to bang these chicks. The same girl I approached this weekend, was hot, for sure, but I couldn't help but think of who or how the doode who had is c0ck in her mouth did it.
If he did, why can't I?
I can attract the girls roughly from 6-7. For me, a 6 is a chick I would bang but wouldn't readily want anyone to know I did. This can be anything from having an average face, but bangable body. A 7 for me, would be a cute face and a bangable body but with all the former ranks, they can have a 10 plus body. These are the ones I've been getting recently.
Now, I'm at the crossroads. I've probably approached over 100 women since starting my journal. This includes the clubs and street game. I've grown enormous social balls, banged a few of my cold approaches (so far 7) and have gotten very few day2's. My trouble is the 8's and 9's. I can't help but have a limiting belief that these girls are out of my league and the chances of us hooking up are non-existant.
What is the best way to attract the 8's and 9's? I know that you should be treating them like ordinary and the same as every other girl, but there must be some underlying factor in order to seal-the-deal with them. Sometimes, looking back at the approaches and a recent club-to-street approach, I had a small ephiphany about it. I failed, well I didn't man-up and ask or escalate for her number, but I felt that I improved for just busting through her shields and stepping up to defeating my non-comfort zone.
Now, I have to make this a re-occurent theme in my game. For a Cold Approach (not Social Circle), how can you advance yourself for the hottest girls. Approaching is not the factor, what to say is not the factor, but what are the factors, there must be some ulterior factor to bang these chicks. The same girl I approached this weekend, was hot, for sure, but I couldn't help but think of who or how the doode who had is c0ck in her mouth did it.
If he did, why can't I?