"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to attract asian girls

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hi im new here, i have this problem, are there any asian girls who might wanna give me advise, anyone really. Well i dont know about anyone else but i can attract any other woman, cause normally i flirt with them and then we proceed further etc, i follow the advice of dujuan experts. B ut my problem is i notice chinese, japanese etc girls dont flirt with me it doesnt matter how hard i try, they just dont look in my direction its like im invisible, i always have this curoisity, i always wondered if asian girls are the same as other girls ive only talked through them through email or web address, or forums, not face to face..so my question is do any other guys have this problem, how do you attract these type of girls, im ok with indian, girls etc, but its just these types of girls, im getting worried i maybe doing something wrong, how do i persue them?. thankyou i appreciate any advice
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol, im serous, my attraction for woman has changed for some reason, i feel only attracted to these girls now, i read an article of being a challange, i think thats what these girls are doing to me, it is quite hard, not sure what to do, any advise from dujuan experts, who are good with woman....
 

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I've actually noticed a difference in gaming asian vs. other women. I've had no problems with latinas or white girls, but asian girls are much more cautious. Of course I've met a lot of asian girls that didn't pose much problem but in general I've had trouble with them. Though then again 95% of the women I game are asian.
 

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Well,since you're new here,let me be the first to tell you that racial topics aren't allowed here on this forum. There's a pretty good chance that this thread will be closed/deleted.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tnx luke, ill try that, but have you notice the same, they dont look at anything longer than one sec, lol, which makes it hard to tell who they like..
 

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sorry igetit, i didnt know how to describe these girls so i used their nationality, im very sorry didnt mean to offend, really sorry, how do you change the thread title
 

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Chill out man,you didn't offend me. It's just that they don't allow racial topics here. I don't think you can change the title of a thread once it's been started.
If the thread continues to stay here for a couple of days,then I guess it's ok,but if you see a padlock symbol on it,that means that the moderators here have closed it.
 

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You also have to figure out their culture. Im not Asian, but from what i heard they can fight over which culture or country is the best. Which makes just saying "Asian" more difficult. For instance Japanese culture is very different from Chinese. So to game a Japanese chick you would need to understand the Japanese culture not the chinese. Anyhow good luck, maybe find out what culture is in the majority of where you live and learn about it
 

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watch some asian drams with subtitles

all of those are pretty sappy

and asian girls dream about sh1t like that 24/7

start with:

MY SASSY GIRL

anti-dj movie, but watch it..that's what those hoes want
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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are you asian learningguy?

i dont know how it is in the US, but in australia, theres no cultural barrier thing. basically, there are 3 types of asian girls.

1. The ones that prefer to only date asian guys. (half half)
2. The ones that don't mind either way (half half)
3. The ones that don't like asian guys and only date the caucasians (minority)

theres no need to know about their culture you guys are talking about. asian girls are the same as all others. if you've got a N.1 girl, then you'll hit a bit of a wall. I dont know how old you are either, but if they're still in high school, they tend to be N.1's i reckon, and some of them shift over to N.2's

anyway, if you're white: stay away from our women!

just kidding

honestly, dont treat them any different, they've all grown up here, and have adjusted to the culture, they shouldn't have any restricitons on where they'll go with a physical relationship either

unless they're recent immagrants, then i have no idea in that case

another thing to consider is that the parents have a strong pull on them, most will probably be very study focused, and the parents will be protective and controlling, afraid of letting them go out too late, and with not-nice guys

anyway thats it, theres nothing magical or especially different about westernized asian girls
 

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Yeah, you don't have to go as far as to know a woman's culture to game her...I know jack sh1t about Vietnamese culture outside of the war but there is a lot of Viet women that are into me. It certainly is a plus but no attractive asian women is going to go head over heels for you because you know about Genghis Khan, unless they are immigrants that don't know anyone. Asian girls are still women, the only difference see in them is that asian mothers are the prime examples of soccer moms.
 

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I ve hooked up with Korean, Japanese, Thai girls... I don't know why so many people are obsessed with getting to know their "culture". It can be, at most, a conversation starter, but it won't get you too far if that's all you got to say.

Just treat them like any other girl. I think you might find some difficulties with Asian girls who just arrived in the US, some of them might be a lot more "conservative" than the average girl here. But then, again, these types also tend to fall into the "only date asian guys" category so it s a lost bet from the start. Don't bother too much about these girls, there are plenty of asians out there who are tired of asian guys and either only hook up with non-asians, or want to experience non-asians, so there's your chance.
 
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