"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to ask this girl to hang out wthout sounding creepy?

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Kal0051

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Ok, work with this girl at my extra weekend job. Chatted with girl for a bit over the weekend and found out she's a fairly cool girl. Got her number because she gets a lot of free sports tickets through her day job and I told her to give me a call if she needs someone to go with. Anyway, I would like to hang out with her regardless but I don't know if it'll look weird if I just call her to
hang out (since she barely knows me). I did tell her I'd come say hi to
her at some event she's doing pr at this week (it's near my work). Any suggestions guys? And sorry if I'm asking a stupid question but I've always had rotten luck with women and am beginning to think I'm doing something fundementally wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're not doing any fundamentally wrong. If she barely knows you she'll automatically have her shield up. In order for her to be more comfortable, invite her to a movie outing with some of your (non-jerk) friends - it'll feel a lot more casual and no pressure. Once you guys get a couple of outings down, it'll be a lot more easier to invite her out alone later on down the road.
 
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Never meant I was doing something fundamentally wrong with her, but in the past I've screwed up with girls (almost every girl) and didn't know what I did wrong. So I'm trying to be careful here.
 
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Whenever you decide to invite her to spend time with you, DO NOT DO IT BY PHONE. Do it IN PERSON, after some small talk and right before ending it on a high note.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Whenever you decide to invite her to spend time with you, DO NOT DO IT BY PHONE. Do it IN PERSON, after some small talk and right before ending it on a high note.
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Good advice.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gangster Of Love said:
Whenever you decide to invite her to spend time with you, DO NOT DO IT BY PHONE. Do it IN PERSON, after some small talk and right before ending it on a high note.
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yep, good advice. Shouldn't be too hard to do seeing as I see a couple times a week. I was thinking of mentioning to her that we should do something when I see her at that event she's doing but maybe that's too soon.
 
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