How to ask a girl to prom?

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

I want to ask a girl to prom but I don't want to get flowers or any bull**** like that. I want to just ask her straight up like this: "Will you go to prom with me?". Does this work? Is there any better way to say it, like "Would you go to prom with me" or something like that? What do you think of this?

 

[Maximus Rex]

1) Why are you going to the prom? Is it because YOU TRULY WANT TO GO TO THIS THING OR IS IT SOME KIND OF PREER PREESURE? I'd suggest not going at all. Spend that money towards something that will lasting value, like a car, a new game, or money towards school.

2) If you must go, why take a date? You said yourself that your not trying buy flowers, the tickets and all of that nonse, and your date is going to expect that from you. Besides, the only reason you want to take a date is that you hope your going to score after the prom.

My advice is skip the prom and go to happening "after the prom party."

 

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

1) Why are you going to the prom? Is it because YOU TRULY WANT TO GO TO THIS THING OR IS IT SOME KIND OF PREER PREESURE? I'd suggest not going at all. Spend that money towards something that will lasting value, like a car, a new game, or money towards school.

2) If you must go, why take a date? You said yourself that your not trying buy flowers, the tickets and all of that nonse, and your date is going to expect that from you. Besides, the only reason you want to take a date is that you hope your going to score after the prom.

My advice is skip the prom and go to happening "after the prom party."

no. i'm going because its my senior year and i dont want to ****ing miss it. got a problem with that? money is not an issue with me right now. i want to take a date because ive gone without a date and its not cool because EVERYONE has a date. im only paying for myself and if she thinks otherwise ill find someone else.

my question is what is the best way to ask a girl to prom? is asking her straight up a good idea or what?

 

[VegasGuy56]

Have you read the bible?

First you have to build attraction. After she's comforatable with you and has shown that she's attracted, you DO NOT say, "Will you go to the prom with me?"

Doing that makes it seem like she's doing you a favor. It's the same thing as when people say "Will you go out with me?" It shows neediness.

Whenever I "ask" a girl out, I do it in a way that makes it sound like SHE'S the lucky one (And she is). For example:

Me: Hey, guess what!
Her: What?
Me: I'm going to so and so place on Thursday, and I'm going to let you come hang out with me.

Same thing with prom. Don't ask her to go with you, tell her that you're letting her go with you.

Go get em!

 

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

Have you read the bible?

First you have to build attraction. After she's comforatable with you and has shown that she's attracted, you DO NOT say, "Will you go to the prom with me?"

Doing that makes it seem like she's doing you a favor. It's the same thing as when people say "Will you go out with me?" It shows neediness.

Whenever I "ask" a girl out, I do it in a way that makes it sound like SHE'S the lucky one (And she is). For example:

Me: Hey, guess what!
Her: What?
Me: I'm going to so and so place on Thursday, and I'm going to let you come hang out with me.

Same thing with prom. Don't ask her to go with you, tell her that you're letting her go with you.

Go get em!

no ****. i'm not ****ing stupid. obviously im not asking about how to get her attracted. im just asking how exactly would you ask her to prom. so you're saying i should say this:
me: hey guess what
her: what
me: your going to prom with me

that doesnt sound right. there has to be a better way to ask a girl to the prom.

 

[VegasGuy56]

lol, did you even read my post, because:

me: hey guess what
her: what
me: your going to prom with me

Is nothing like what I said. Besides, to pull it off you need to come across as a naturally fun, confident guy. And no offense, but you don't seem like that kind of person.

Anyway, works for me, and that's how I got my prom date for junior prom this year, so whatever dude. Have fun standing next to the wall with the line of other guys who don't have dates.

 

[shydude]

no ****. i'm not ****ing stupid. obviously im not asking about how to get her attracted. im just asking how exactly would you ask her to prom. so you're saying i should say this:
me: hey guess what
her: what
me: your going to prom with me

that doesnt sound right. there has to be a better way to ask a girl to the prom.

LMFAO!! Hey guess what, I am fukking you tonight!! HAHAHAHA thats some funny ****!! :crackup: !!


You: Hey guess what!!
Her: What?
You: Your lucky, couse i chose you to do me a blow job!!!

Ask her to the prom!! Its ok to ask a girl to the prom!! Ask her something like, hey you have nayone to go to the prom with?? If she says no, you say you say ohh cool i dont have anyone to go with too, lets go together!! Thats it good

 

[Dandrufman]

Offer, dont ask

no ****. i'm not ****ing stupid. obviously im not asking about how to get her attracted. im just asking how exactly would you ask her to prom. so you're saying i should say this:
me: hey guess what
her: what
me: your going to prom with me

that doesnt sound right. there has to be a better way to ask a girl to the prom.

Dont take things so literally. What he was saying is that you should make it seem like YOU are doing HER a favor by going with her.

Ask her if she's going to the prom, then invite her (dont ask, offer it like its something she'd be a fool to refuse) to go with you.

Remember: offer, dont ask

 

[Gubby]

"Come to the prom with me *grin*!"

Or, if that's not you, you can just ask in the traditional way. Yeah, it WILL feel wierd if you don't already have some sort of connection going. There's still a decent chance she'll agree, after all, girls have the "I don't want to be the only one without a date" problem going too.

Relax! Life's a game.

 

[Damian]

This is ridiculous how people blow tiny problems way out of proportion. You have to realize that the bigger a deal that you make out of just ASKING the girl, the more awkward you make it when you do. You're being too self conscious. Just ask her in a manner that seems comfortable. If you don't do it that way, chances are that by the time you DO find the "perfect ask" (which you will never find, btw), you'll be so psyched that you probably won't even work up the guts to actually ask her and run by the excuse that you're looking for the "perfect situation/mood". I repeat, because you are making such a big deal out of this, you are already setting up the situation AGAINST your favor. You want to ask her? Imagine a scenario in your own head, imagine her accepting. Make your decision and EXECUTE. Don't bog yourself down with semantics.

-Damian

 

[Potbelly]

"Just do it."

- nike

 

[jlazz]

Quit being a little ***** and just ask her. You shouldn't be worrying about such a little thing. If you're too worried about how she'll react, then you haven't done what is needed before hand. You need to build some rapport before you go up to a girl and ask her to prom. Show her you're a fun and chill guy and will make her night. Once you get signs of interest from her, then you pop the question. You can't just ask it without any ground work. This is basic stuff man.

So if you haven't laid the groundwork yet, get going. If you have, then just ask her...it doesn't matter how you ask it, she's not going to be overanalyzing it like you are. So grab your balls and go.

BTW...if you're so nervous about asking her, how the hell are you going to have a good time w/ her on prom night. You should be asking someone you feel comfortable with.

 

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

Quit being a little ***** and just ask her. You shouldn't be worrying about such a little thing. If you're too worried about how she'll react, then you haven't done what is needed before hand. You need to build some rapport before you go up to a girl and ask her to prom. Show her you're a fun and chill guy and will make her night. Once you get signs of interest from her, then you pop the question. You can't just ask it without any ground work. This is basic stuff man.

for the second time, I ALREADY ****ING KNOW THAT!!!

all i wanted to know is what would be a smooth way to a girl to prom. you guys need to chill out.

btw i asked the girl and she said she already had a date so i got to ask some more girls. time is running out and girls are getting dates fast. i shouldnt have waited so long. ****...

 

[Damian]

To quote:

"Hesitate = Masturbate"

-Damian

 

[kev me723]

wow. You guys that all read the bible and have never used any of that canned advice are damn cool huh?

I would suggest you take advice from the people that HAVE experience. "bla bla you have to build attraction, and get her interested, i'm full of bible bs"

Last year I went up to one of the most popular girls in my class (it's not that big of a deal cuz i go to a small school) but we have done nothing more that chat in class. She didn't have a date, prom was cumin up real soon, I said "hey (hername) you, me, prom?" obviously expecting the 'yeah' that i got along with her blushing and w/e.

Anyway, it's not that complex. If you want to know what to say I would suggest a few things. If you KNOW she is attracted to you, "hey you're going to prom with me, right?" that's a good/rare one, works great. If it's more of a friendly thing, hey who are you going to prom with? When she says no one/doesn't kno yet/w/e well why don't you show up with me/same here, let's go together.

You want something casual and confident, yet not like a middle age pervert type. Just be confident the words don't really matter all that much anyway.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

guess how i got my date to the prom??

Me standing there talking to my friends about the prom, i was saying i wasnt going at all, this girl i know(HB9), came up to me
she:are you going to the prom?
No
She: why not?? it will be fun
no not really
she: well...i'll go with you(hahaha,so obvious she is not use to rejection)
hemm...let me think about it

And that, gentelmen, is how i got my date

try to attract her, maybe it will get to the stage where she is the one whos asking you instead of you asking her.