"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to ask a girl to prom? or do i even ask?!?!?!?ASAP

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Good luck man. But seriously, its no big deal. If she says yes, thats cool. If she says no, find some cute girl you barely know and ask her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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then tmrw will be officially 1 week. ill just be straight up and ask her what her decision is.... if not idk if im gonna go to prom or not.
 
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come on, bro, just go anyways. Don't wimp out and let that drag your rep down. There's plenty of other ladies out there....!
 
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true brotha. here's what went down... apparently this girl and her ex "promised" each other to go to each others proms and right now their not on good terms so she hasn't said yes.... so idk i was like yeah that's fine w.e
 
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Good on ya man :p sounds like the best thing to do in that situation. But remember, just go anyways. However, things are sort of looking up as I see it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah she did reject another kid that asked her today so thats a good sign for me.but i guess she still has feelings for her ex or at least a little but i doubt her ex will go... so idk im gonna try to arrange some other backups and spin some prom plates.
 
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i'm not sure why ur not asking her yet cause im too lazy to read 2nd page but god dammit ask her as soon as you can....
 
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kingxxxman said:
yeah she did reject another kid that asked her today so thats a good sign for me.but i guess she still has feelings for her ex or at least a little but i doubt her ex will go... so idk im gonna try to arrange some other backups and spin some prom plates.
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If i was caught in that situation I'd tell her blunt, to either choose me or her ****ty ex, the choice is in her hands. Then walk away.
 
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Straight up - ask her. Doesn't matter what she says!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she basically said no today.... i made the AFC move of saying let me know later this week. I think im not even gonna bother asking her about it and just ask someone else...You think that would be a **** move incase she does change her mind?
 
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Rejected... she got back with her BF basically... i made the mistake of being her BACKUP plan. Definitely have to be more assertive. I am happy though since i had a backup myself, still a above average girl :) and i learned from my mistake and gained respect. I did get a text from the other girl though telling me how sweet and nice i was about everything.... which idk about... i still feel like i may have a chance in the future...? comments?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm not sure how strict your school is on use of the PA. However in my school I am very close with the teacher who does the annoucenments and after getting permission from the principle I was able to get the teacher to ask the girl to prom for me over the morning announcements. Ofcourse you have to make sure the the girl is in school....
It went something like ".... Also XXX would like to know if XXX will go to porm with him, He's currently in room 211"
 
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King you're overthinking. She has her BF back, don't be her ***** to fall back on. A text means nothing unless she's blatantly flirting with you. And I mean girls will make it obvious if they really do care. Move on, sure you might have a "chance" in the future, but it's only going to be about the same as with a girl you don't know or if you keep this up, even worse because you'll be permanently stuck in the friend/***** zone.
 
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