Ok so recently I've been messing around with this girl. We drank a bit together and basically did everything but normal sex but the problem was that I had 2 friends with me at the time and they kept ****blocking me while I was with her. Meaning they wanted to get in on the action so they kept pressuring her to do sexual things with them too. She got annoyed and turned off by that but I talked to her again the next day and she said she would be down to hang out another time. Thing is, what should I say to her to invite her to have sex without seeming like a total jerk? And should I hang out with her by myself this time and not drink? Any tips/advice is appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to ask a girl to "hang out"?
- Thread starter Fighter95
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
You are overthinking it, if the vibe is right and shes said she wants to hang out again. You could make anything up to get her round to yours, start talking about a movie you like and invite her to watch it
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hey! Lets hang out this weekend?
Yes or no. You have your answer.
Yes or no. You have your answer.