How to ask a girl to a dance w/o revealing interest?

[DoctorLW]

I have no idea how to go about this in a DJ-like way.

She is good at the game and attractive so if I don't act I'm sure she will go with someone else.

What is a good way to go about doing this w/o revealing my interest in her? And how much time before the dance is best to ask...2 weeks?

 

[xhikari]

hmm try askin her in a laid back manner as if u r already goin there so well she can join in kinda thing like "hey i am goin for the dance, comin?"
and yeah....ask A.S.A.P cause someone else might get to her first.

 

[tactic]

by asking her, she would know that you are interested in her.

get her to feel really good about you then ask her.

 

[diablo]

How to ask a girl to a dance w/o revealing interest?

There's a word for this... "oxymoron".

 

[n00bPimp]

Somthing like "hey im surprised you havent invited me to the dance yet" or "when are u gonna invite me to the dance? I wont be available for too long u know"

 

[MetalFortress]

"I hate you. Let's go to the dance together."

 

[defiancy]

well to really think about it...there is no real way in asking her without showing your interest.

(Hopefuly you demonstrated value, kinoed, C+Fed, and played hard to get for her to have some interest in you)

If you didin't u might get rejected, but dotn worry about it yet, better to try rather than not trying at all

when asking her just ask her casually "lets go to the dance blah blah blah"

be sure to ask before someone else does

 

[DoctorLW]

I've established lots of interest (I think).

She constantly tells me how many guys are obssessed w/ her. The only thing I didn't like was when she told me she cheated on one of her boyfriends last year (who happens to be a close friend of mine). As well as repeatedly trash talk him for being whipped. Kinda bothers me, but I let it slide.

She also stated the other day to her best friend (also my friend) directly in front of me how she didn't like this other guy any more. I figure the reason for that is me.

As far as I can tell she hasn't met a guy yet who isn't an AFC... so her interest is high.

So I guess I'm just going to try something like this...

What are your plans for the dance?
[answer.]
Well, you should go with me.

Sound good to you all?

 

[DoctorLW]

btw this is college and not high school but thats cool.

(noticing how it is moved)

 

[tyciol]

The DJ way is to ask her out by expressing your interest.

I like the 'I hate you' idea too though.

 

[undesputable]

Showing interst is NOT bad at all, showing TOO much interest as most guys do is though. Theres got to be a certain degree of interest in order for her to have interest in you in the first place. If you lack absolutly all interest in your approach which if you think about it, it is an oxymoron bc youre automatically showing interest by wanting to dance with her.

Good interest:
Walk calmly to her, and ask her politly if you dont really know her well " would you like to dance?". If you know her well enough you can just say "lets dance".

Bad interest:
Act all nervous, over interested, and have a weak tone of voice, and ask her "would you please dance with me or else Im going to die? Please please please".

 

[DoctorLW]

Nah I guess I'm cool. I didn't mean dance dance... I've already danced with her a bunch.

I meant to like a big formal dance...the biggest of the year. It would be the equivelant to the HS prom I suppose. That's the only reason I ask. Asking her to such a big dance seems implicity to be such a big deal, but I guess I'm just thinking too hard.

I'll just ask her next time I'm hooking up w/ her.

 

[Luscious]

Asking her to dance is a clear and present sign of interest.

That's the point of getting a dance with her - indicating interest.

 

[Jester]

you dont ask.

you take her hand and you lead her to the dance floor.

 

[Luscious]

Originally posted by Jester
you dont ask.

you take her hand and you lead her to the dance floor.

The real solution is in my sig.

Shamelessly promoting a site, wow, that's class, man.

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by Luscious
Shamelessly promoting a site, wow, that's class, man.

thats right dyke.

 

[Luscious]

Sorry, I don't tolerate that stuff.
Thread reported.

 

[Jester]

If you wanna argue. Argue with me on aim.

YogurtTastesgo0d


I've been here longer than you, I've posted WAY more than you, I've started more threads than you, I have a post in the bible.

You're just a symp trying to act like hes tough.

 

[Luscious]

If this other site you're promoting is so good in comparison to sosuave.com - then why are you so proud and trumpet your sosuave.com stats as a golden shining trophy of accomplishment?

Frequency and volume of posts on an internet message board, coupled with immature name-calling, is not a measuring stick for life achievement - happiness, success, and effort are. I think you'd benefit by taking that statement to heart and possibly making a tad more beneficial use of your time, don't you agree?

I've got much better things to do with my time - I'm a busy guy and, unlike you, I have some respect. I'd advise you that if you'd like to beat your chest and boast about the frequency and volume of posts, you do so elsewhere, because I'm not all that interested. May I suggest you do so on the website in your signature that you're so interested in promoting?

Don't worry, I won't be posting back to any reply you do make - my time is much more valuable than this.

 

[Zaine]

What if he tells you that he has mommy-napped your mom, and he really has?! Goddamn think OUTSIDE THE BOX guys.