"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to ask a car show model for a date?
- Thread starter gin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Harry Wilmington
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The reason? You assume talking to a car model is somehow different from talking to a girl that's frumpy or not as societally attractive as others. It's not. A car model has the same feelings of insecurity, doubts and fears about herself that ALL girls have. You have to remind yourself that her looks are simply an outer shell that's hiding who she is, nothing more. Once I was able to get this into my head (and, admittedly, living with a drop-dead gorgeous girl while in school who also had irritable bowel syndrome and was messy as heck helped my viewpoint on "hot girls" become a LOT more realistic), I had no problem talking to ANY woman whatsover, regardless of what she looked like.
In answer to your question: you don't go in there trying to ask any of the models for a "date." You go in there with the hopes of striking up a conversation and getting the number. If she agrees to give you the number it means she's open to you calling her for a date; if she doesn't, it's her way of saying "no" to the idea of dating you in the least harmful way possible. Hope this helps!
Maximus Rex
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Remember that when you go an holla at her. Also, keep in mind that baby girl is at work so when you do you're hollerin', keep in mind that you have a time constraint in place. Hell, you mind want to use that your advantage. When you're kicking it, when the conversation is at it's high point break it off and say, "It's been cool talking to you and I know you have to get back to work. Give me your number and I'll speak you later."Harry Wilmington said:
When you enter the convention center take note of the where the high:moon: concessions are, the reason being is say you're hollerin' at a chick and during the course of kicking you ask her when she goes to lunch. She tells you that she's getting ready to either go on her lunch break or she's already on her lunch break, from there you bounce her to high :moon: concession stand for an insta-date, if you not try to arrange something for when she gets off of work. Personally, I think you should go during the week because there will be less of a crowd. For more information click the links for "Hired Gun Game," http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/f...ces/hired-gun-game/28888-basic-hired-gun-game