Except you know for a fact she's married, so...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
how to approach this married woman? (moralists spare me)
- Thread starter CrimsonPanther
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
-i think this thread went exactly as you knew it would
- it's called having morals, not every guy in the world thinks getting his **** wet is more important than anything else in the universe, that's a dangerous line of thought which, while fun, will get you into trouble
- chances are that it is would be extremely difficult to not notice if a girl has a boyfriend unless she either has been planning to cheat for a while and thus preparing or unless she keeps you in the dark about literally everything in her life and you don't think that's suspicious. somehow i doubt that the odds of being caught banging someone's girl are worse than the odds of getting into a car accident, but even then most car accidents are very minor anyway
mrgoodstuff
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I've meet people who took another guy girl... married or not.... and after it happened the guy still with the girl 5 - 10 - 15 - 20 years later... there is always a reason for everything. We are talking personal stuff after allYeah, he might get luckyThen it's his turn. The ones who employ these systems have roles for the "players" involved. Of course with a woman like this the husband usually gets the short end of the stick.
The OP is filling a gap the ''husband'' doesn't fill.... maybe the husband doesn't care or he's gay etc....
In the end, moral or not... there is a reason this stuff is happening.... better make the best out of it cause yep its a touchy subject
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I wasnt' saying on the "moral" stance. There are women who would cheat on ANY man. Doesn't matter what he does or doesn't do. I was saying that for some of these types if you sit in the "husband" seat, she will still do all her extra-curriculars outside of the house. The husbands job is to be stable, loving and to take care of her. Her friends job is to let her have fun.
So yes often enough the outside male is filling a role the husband won't or can't do.
But often enough the outside male is simply filling a role that she won't LET the husband do, because that's not her lifestyle.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
it would be a horrible idea to ever do anything more than fvck her since she has basically proven that she doesn't really comprehend committment when it's not convenient to herYeah, he might get lucky
mrgoodstuff
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Well she's perfect for banging, you don't have to take care of her or be too helpful, do your thing and send her back home to her husband when done.
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In my opinion it's not about morals but more about the amount of drama it could potentially and a lot of times will bring and the fact that it's probably not worth it. There's too much single pu$$y out there to worry about a married woman.
I guess to add something constructive to the convo, I'd say just treat her like any other chick you're gaming. If you're different and interesting her feelz will kick in at some point.
I guess to add something constructive to the convo, I'd say just treat her like any other chick you're gaming. If you're different and interesting her feelz will kick in at some point.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
the very last thing he wants or needs is for her to have feelz, even though it sounds like she already does
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.