ok i am a senior. this girl is a junior. i have a sociology class with her first period. from in class she seems really quiet. she has a myspace and it says shes single. id rate her an 8 on looks. so do i approach her from myspace like sending a friends request talking online... or should i try something in person. i saw her at a school event tuesday so that could be a conversation starter.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how to approach this girl
- Thread starter Stark
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lexie
Don Juan
In person is much more sincere than myspace, which comes across as an easy way out sometimes. Just sit by her in class and make small talk, she'll open up 
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Walk up to her in class and say "hey."
It's easier to have a good conversation outside of class though. Just get her to start talking and you'll be fine.
It's easier to have a good conversation outside of class though. Just get her to start talking and you'll be fine.