I met this girl about 6 months ago through a friend, and found her really attractive, but I was in a relationship at the time. I was with my ex for a little over 3 years and we split up back in august. Anyway, ive started talking to this girl, and we have been texting, etc quite a bit. She called me the other day and invited me out to dinner, and she even paid, but wouldnt call it a date. She doesnt want to date anyone for any reason whatsoever. She was in a relationship, and literally got shlt on so hardcore by this guy, that she says she is totally content being single forever, and just getting a dog as a companion. They broke up 3 months ago, but were only together for 8 months. She said she was in love with him more than any person on earth. Im 27, shes 23 and is a virgin. I give her a 9/10, but she is fairly shy, and a good girl. seriously the type of girl i could marry someday. I cant say that about many girls at all, and ive dated probably 30 in the last 5 years.
So my question is this. What can i do to spark the attraction inside her to get her to come around and want to date. Ive been laying on the C&F, and she loves it. I can get her laughing all the time. We have a great time when we hang out, but havent been around each other that much. Ive kept it this way so i dont get hung out in the friend zone.
One piece of advice i got from a mutual friend (guy) of ours, is to become good friends with her first, then she would be more likely to start a relationship. this goes against all of my training though, but she is a good girl and is most likely waiting for marriage etc. I dont know how to handle a chick like this, because most of the types i pick up are ready to roll the first night. I could seriously take this chick home to mom though.
Thanks!
So my question is this. What can i do to spark the attraction inside her to get her to come around and want to date. Ive been laying on the C&F, and she loves it. I can get her laughing all the time. We have a great time when we hang out, but havent been around each other that much. Ive kept it this way so i dont get hung out in the friend zone.
One piece of advice i got from a mutual friend (guy) of ours, is to become good friends with her first, then she would be more likely to start a relationship. this goes against all of my training though, but she is a good girl and is most likely waiting for marriage etc. I dont know how to handle a chick like this, because most of the types i pick up are ready to roll the first night. I could seriously take this chick home to mom though.
Thanks!