"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I met this girl about 6 months ago through a friend, and found her really attractive, but I was in a relationship at the time. I was with my ex for a little over 3 years and we split up back in august. Anyway, ive started talking to this girl, and we have been texting, etc quite a bit. She called me the other day and invited me out to dinner, and she even paid, but wouldnt call it a date. She doesnt want to date anyone for any reason whatsoever. She was in a relationship, and literally got shlt on so hardcore by this guy, that she says she is totally content being single forever, and just getting a dog as a companion. They broke up 3 months ago, but were only together for 8 months. She said she was in love with him more than any person on earth. Im 27, shes 23 and is a virgin. I give her a 9/10, but she is fairly shy, and a good girl. seriously the type of girl i could marry someday. I cant say that about many girls at all, and ive dated probably 30 in the last 5 years.

So my question is this. What can i do to spark the attraction inside her to get her to come around and want to date. Ive been laying on the C&F, and she loves it. I can get her laughing all the time. We have a great time when we hang out, but havent been around each other that much. Ive kept it this way so i dont get hung out in the friend zone.

One piece of advice i got from a mutual friend (guy) of ours, is to become good friends with her first, then she would be more likely to start a relationship. this goes against all of my training though, but she is a good girl and is most likely waiting for marriage etc. I dont know how to handle a chick like this, because most of the types i pick up are ready to roll the first night. I could seriously take this chick home to mom though.

Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jamescr73 said:
They broke up 3 months ago, but were only together for 8 months. She said she was in love with him more than any person on earth. Im 27, shes 23 and is a virgin.

So my question is this. What can i do to spark the attraction inside her to get her to come around and want to date.
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RUN

and run as fast as you can in the other direction. Think about this. She loved this guy more than any person on earth but still she never gave him a sniff of her pvssy.

What makes you think you can suddenly make her want to spread her legs? She was madly in love with this guy and still never gave it up. Your best hope would be for her to fall madly in love with you, but we already know that isn't enough to get her to take off her panties.

Your on a one way road to oneitis and AFC'ville. Your only option is to run from this girl
 
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