jjlawrence
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I realize most people are doing the online thing, which I'm not quite into.
For those who are willing to accept the challenge of IRL approaching here are some basic tips.
1. find events with a concentration of attractive young women WHO WANT TO BE APPROACHED. This is almost always social events during weekends, from early friday evenings to late saturday nights into the wee hours. Any other events or times offer diminishing, if any returns. (Thursday evenings in college towns are often big, but tough to schedule if you're out of college).
2. cut your losses early. Dip out immediately with any TRUE signs of hostility. You'll develop a negative rep really fast at any given venue or in a social circle if you are clueless.
3. 90% of your work comes before you approach: gym, wardrobe, grooming, having your act together in life.
4. socially intelligent escalation and leading. Too much to write here.
5. keep your expectations in check. Success of your IRL approaches scale directly with your physical attractiveness initially and with social intelligence and overall life success long term. Volume approaching will only waste everyone's time.
For those who are willing to accept the challenge of IRL approaching here are some basic tips.
1. find events with a concentration of attractive young women WHO WANT TO BE APPROACHED. This is almost always social events during weekends, from early friday evenings to late saturday nights into the wee hours. Any other events or times offer diminishing, if any returns. (Thursday evenings in college towns are often big, but tough to schedule if you're out of college).
2. cut your losses early. Dip out immediately with any TRUE signs of hostility. You'll develop a negative rep really fast at any given venue or in a social circle if you are clueless.
3. 90% of your work comes before you approach: gym, wardrobe, grooming, having your act together in life.
4. socially intelligent escalation and leading. Too much to write here.
5. keep your expectations in check. Success of your IRL approaches scale directly with your physical attractiveness initially and with social intelligence and overall life success long term. Volume approaching will only waste everyone's time.
