"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to approach next-door female neighbor??

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So I'm interested in this girl that lives next door but I' don't really know how to approach her or the situation. Might I add that we have very different work/school schedules so I rarely "bump" into her. I work early in the morning (5 am-2pm) and she goes to school late in the morning and comes home around 6 in the afternoon.

I found out today that she may be moving next month, so I gotta make a move fast. I thought about leaving a little note on her car, perhaps a flower (not a rose) on her windshield, since my chances of running into her are not in my favor. I know this approach is very AFCish and to a certain extent a little creepy but I can't let this opportunity pass me by.

The note I thought about leaving reads something like this "Hey I noticed you might be moving soon, so i figured I'd say hi before you go".. blah blah blah; maybe leave my phone number...

Guys any advice, input will be greatly appreciated...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What has worked for me, in the past, is teach karate classes in the back yard, when I know she will (eventually) see me. If and when I get a response, from a lady, I take her shooting. If she is not "into" both those things, I am not going to waste my time on her. I spend way too much time at those 2 hobbies, and if she's not going to enjoy being there with me, she'd soon resent the time I spend away from her. And I am NOT giving up either one of them, nor spending less time on either one. :) My hobbies are totally "faithful" friends. They always cheer me up.
 
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