"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to approach next-door female neighbor??

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Runbeaurun228

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So I'm interested in this girl that lives next door but I' don't really know how to approach her or the situation. Might I add that we have very different work/school schedules so I rarely "bump" into her. I work early in the morning (5 am-2pm) and she goes to school late in the morning and comes home around 6 in the afternoon.

I found out today that she may be moving next month, so I gotta make a move fast. I thought about leaving a little note on her car, perhaps a flower (not a rose) on her windshield, since my chances of running into her are not in my favor. I know this approach is very AFCish and to a certain extent a little creepy but I can't let this opportunity pass me by.

The note I thought about leaving reads something like this "Hey I noticed you might be moving soon, so i figured I'd say hi before you go".. blah blah blah; maybe leave my phone number...

Guys any advice, input will be greatly appreciated...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What has worked for me, in the past, is teach karate classes in the back yard, when I know she will (eventually) see me. If and when I get a response, from a lady, I take her shooting. If she is not "into" both those things, I am not going to waste my time on her. I spend way too much time at those 2 hobbies, and if she's not going to enjoy being there with me, she'd soon resent the time I spend away from her. And I am NOT giving up either one of them, nor spending less time on either one. :) My hobbies are totally "faithful" friends. They always cheer me up.
 
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