Big Neil is the welfare state for strippers.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to approach chicks you don't know?
- Thread starter 9Volt
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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interestingly enough, what I find is that people are in their own little bubble throughout the day, they look unapproachable ( man and women) . However, when you break the barrier, you find people are genuinely nice people, who don't mind being approached.
Honestly, just saying 'Hi" works for me, or notice something on her and comment on it. It isn't that difficult.
Honestly, just saying 'Hi" works for me, or notice something on her and comment on it. It isn't that difficult.
OOH! Let's ask the opinion of an unemployed 18 year old, chunky black girl raised on food stamps and currently wearing stretch pants! 9Volt?
Again, I spend 2.3% of my income (11 minutes per day) on gorgeous women. Tell us 9Yold: what percentage of your income you spend on dates again? Oh wait, your income is zero. You're welcome for the EBT card by the way. Sadly however, Trump ended Federal Funding for your Sanctuary City.
Remember guys: a broke man is the equivalent of a fat girl. You might get laid once in a while, but only if the other person is totally drunk.
Keep attempting to justify your provider status lil neil. While you're shelling out the "do you love me" payola other dudes are hitting and quitting those same mediocre strippers you KNEEL to.