Big Neil is the welfare state for strippers.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to approach chicks you don't know?
- Thread starter 9Volt
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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interestingly enough, what I find is that people are in their own little bubble throughout the day, they look unapproachable ( man and women) . However, when you break the barrier, you find people are genuinely nice people, who don't mind being approached.
Honestly, just saying 'Hi" works for me, or notice something on her and comment on it. It isn't that difficult.
Honestly, just saying 'Hi" works for me, or notice something on her and comment on it. It isn't that difficult.
OOH! Let's ask the opinion of an unemployed 18 year old, chunky black girl raised on food stamps and currently wearing stretch pants! 9Volt?
Again, I spend 2.3% of my income (11 minutes per day) on gorgeous women. Tell us 9Yold: what percentage of your income you spend on dates again? Oh wait, your income is zero. You're welcome for the EBT card by the way. Sadly however, Trump ended Federal Funding for your Sanctuary City.
Remember guys: a broke man is the equivalent of a fat girl. You might get laid once in a while, but only if the other person is totally drunk.
Keep attempting to justify your provider status lil neil. While you're shelling out the "do you love me" payola other dudes are hitting and quitting those same mediocre strippers you KNEEL to.