"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how to approach at her locker...need ec or not?

cA^

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yo

I need some advice from some experienced DJ's around here.

situation:

so college went back for me today (700+ grade 11 & 12 students from around my region) and there are alot of hotties wearing those short shorts, low cut tops and whatnot.

so one has a locker near mine, shes about a 7 anyway i'd like to game her and see how far i've come, hell maybe even something will come out of it...

anyway i have a problem i cant seem to get over and i wnat some advice so i can cure this, and approach tomorrow, before the weekend:

i dont know how to go about the INITIAL approach. say if she was at her locker (she doesnt know my name, cause she came from a different high school) so we dont know eachother, so how do I go up to her (walk etc.) and what should I say to open the convo WITHOUT looking like a fool.

I think thats my biggest problem, i think im going to look like a tossa infront of her and anyone else around.

can some of you guys give me some tips about how to go about this situation, i want to try it tomorrow if some of ya's have some help for me :)

sarge on! (eh shezza! :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blinkwatt

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You could just say "Hey hows it going",or if you arent so blunt you could pretend like you are missing a pencil and need one. From there you can ask her and if she has one say thanks,ask what class she is going to and introduce yourself.
 

cA^

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Hey blinkwatt, thanks for taking the time to help me man, appricated.

Yea it's just the initial 'Hey how are you' that I need to get over, after that i'd be fine for stuff to talk about:

what school did u go to
what subjects
what class u got now
which town u live in

etc.
 
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