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How to approach a girl when she's with her friends?

Chad Sawyer

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I saw this girl in school and I like her.
Her bright smile, cute face, but I don't know how to approach her because she's always with her friends. Whenever I saw her she has always a friend with her. How to approach her? How could I start a conversation when her friends are around?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, you need to approach her and her friend(s) then. Im sure shes a friendly girl, and if you come across sincere and genuine (i.e not an obsessive stalker) im sure she will be flattered by any interest you direct to her. Beware of getting c0ckblocked by the friend though!

Read the DJ bible. There is a good section in there for approaching groups etc.

Perhaps this should have been posted in the high school forum, as I am imaging you being like 15 or something.
 
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Chad Sawyer said:
I saw this girl in school and I like her.
Her bright smile, cute face, but I don't know how to approach her because she's always with her friends. Whenever I saw her she has always a friend with her. How to approach her? How could I start a conversation when her friends are around?
You wanna lay the girl? I'll tell you how:

1. Make sure your reputation is even enough around her level to hang with her. Oh yes its brutally honest.

2. If you really want it you catch her alone, tell her the truth, be nice and tell her what you want...

- An easy opener that always works is a bland statement on your environment or surroundings.. anything.. set the pace of reality for you both its your responsibility.
- Shut down any anxiety or thinking as soon as she asks a question back, she's indicated officially she wants to screw you as well as long as you're not morbidly obese or not in her social range... She cares what people think to an extent, all *****es are the same in that aspect.
- focus sexually, how you really want it.. that feeling in your gut you should listen to, tell her you want to hangout, be nice, not ****y and don't pressure her, never lie to her... She'll bang you. If she doesn't just keep trying that, that instinct is in every male... then comes your own personality and qualities.

Hopefully you understand... good luck youngbuck :nervous: :crackup:
 

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Good timing dude. Just pulled that off. There was this group of most beautiful girls in my college. Become a charming guy. Means you must be able to talk to any guy you meet. Everyone should seem to know you. People looking at me assume i have nearly a hundred friends. But i dont. Those are all mere acquaintances. But who cares, social proof is achieved.
NOW: HOW I APPROACHED THE GIRL?
I was on her floor to meet my friend. I am waiting for his outside his room. Her friend appears so i think even she will come coz they usually stick together. She comes and I say to myself 'If you dont talk to her today, you are the biggest cvnt in the world. Works: i get the courage to go up to her. I just said hi. She looked taken aback. Pretend as if you were expecting that. Be charming, friendly. Expect every outcome, even getting rejected. But think that you will succeed. After that encounter, three days i waited, them took her number. I was extremely direct in communicating my interest in her. Told her i wanted to get to know her more. No scope for ljbf. And I always made it seem i can walk away anytime.
YEAH BUT WHAT ABOUT FRIENDS?
Once i got even with her, i used to say hi whenever i see her. When i used to talk to her, her friends would just leave. On one occasion i said to her, hey just call your friend. She called her. When my friend looked at me, i said hi. Now i say hi to all of them on a regular basis. So i am with this girl but friends with all of her group. Deal done. Be extremely friendly and charming to her friends, and be direct and sexual with this girl. Works wonders. But remember girls play games. Dont get stepped upon. And yeah, friends of your girlfriend like to do things for you. Make them do you little favours. Reward them with a smile and a thanks. Works great.
Last note: While talking to this girl always keep a girl who you are gonna try if you get rejected with this girl. Takes unnecessary attention of her and stops you getting desperate. Good luck dude. Worked for me. Hope it helps.
 
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F!DELITY said:
Well, you need to approach her and her friend(s) then. Im sure shes a friendly girl, and if you come across sincere and genuine (i.e not an obsessive stalker) im sure she will be flattered by any interest you direct to her. Beware of getting c0ckblocked by the friend though!

Read the DJ bible. There is a good section in there for approaching groups etc.

Perhaps this should have been posted in the high school forum, as I am imaging you being like 15 or something.
lol I beg to differ. I agree with your statement on c0ckblocking.. but read my points... I agree that personality is important but I feel compelled to tell you that even if an "obsessive stalker" he has a chance as long as he's a "nice" "no-pressure" "obsessive stalker." Catch my vibe if you will.. Along those lines he should also be capable socially speaking as in, in his environment.. "cool enough"... thats based on what you do, if you dress impressively.. who you are, sports? Always a plus in highschool, money? forget about it, you're in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kokane said:
Good timing dude. Just pulled that off. There was this group of most beautiful girls in my college. Become a charming guy. Means you must be able to talk to any guy you meet. Everyone should seem to know you. People looking at me assume i have nearly a hundred friends. But i dont. Those are all mere acquaintances. But who cares, social proof is achieved.
NOW: HOW I APPROACHED THE GIRL?
I was on her floor to meet my friend. I am waiting for his outside his room. Her friend appears so i think even she will come coz they usually stick together. She comes and I say to myself 'If you dont talk to her today, you are the biggest cvnt in the world. Works: i get the courage to go up to her. I just said hi. She looked taken aback. Pretend as if you were expecting that. Be charming, friendly. Expect every outcome, even getting rejected. But think that you will succeed. After that encounter, three days i waited, them took her number. I was extremely direct in communicating my interest in her. Told her i wanted to get to know her more. No scope for ljbf. And I always made it seem i can walk away anytime.
YEAH BUT WHAT ABOUT FRIENDS?
Once i got even with her, i used to say hi whenever i see her. When i used to talk to her, her friends would just leave. On one occasion i said to her, hey just call your friend. She called her. When my friend looked at me, i said hi. Now i say hi to all of them on a regular basis. So i am with this girl but friends with all of her group. Deal done. Be extremely friendly and charming to her friends, and be direct and sexual with this girl. Works wonders. But remember girls play games. Dont get stepped upon. And yeah, friends of your girlfriend like to do things for you. Make them do you little favours. Reward them with a smile and a thanks. Works great.
Last note: While talking to this girl always keep a girl who you are gonna try if you get rejected with this girl. Takes unnecessary attention of her and stops you getting desperate. Good luck dude. Worked for me. Hope it helps.
My friend you're good... We're alike. Girls play games, when they do, if it's out of your reach, knock out her spine.

Superb pick up language can be recognized... you have it, you use key words that indicate so kokane... hehe... we won't even use any words :up:
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
My friend you're good... We're alike. Girls play games, when they do, if it's out of your reach, knock out her spine.

Superb pick up language can be recognized... you have it, you use key words that indicate so kokane... hehe... we won't even use any words :up:
Thanks man. U knw that after a while when ur inner game develops u get natural at this. I still need to work on cold approaches outside college, but everything else is going pretty good. Any advice on how to improve cold approaches in public places where it seems everyone is looking?
 
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