How to approach a girl that recently broke up with her B/F??

[bignick79]

OK guys, i'd like to get some different opinions on this subjuct.

I know a female, and she has recently broke up with her b/f. My question for all you guys is, how quickly should I proceed?? We've gone dancing once since the break up, it went ok, but i could sense a little hesistance. But we definately had fun together. I'd like to hear some other stories from other guys to give me some ideas and ways to approach this.

Big Nick

 

[Trance]

Rebound mode on!!

Usually these girls are the easyest to get a piece of, and if that's what you want should be no problem if u make your game right.
If u want a relationship that's more complicated, depends if it was her or he who broke. If it was he, she will be hard for a while, and even if starts another relation she will still have feeling for him. But in any case, she's VERY available now, so go for it!

 

[bignick79]

Yea, she broke it off with him, he was a drunken loser!! Come on guys, i know you got stories, lets here em!!!

 

[Trance]

I know a couple of friends who had LTR's, and after the girls broke up, they become ultra-bithy, being with lots of guys each of them, like after a LTR they wanna try out many guys.

 

[JuNgaLisT]

Is she interested in you? If you call her and she answers, is she interested? Does she always answer your calls or give you the run-around?

There are many types of break-ups reactions with LTRs:

Some become freaks

Some close up and become anti-social

Some find a rebound ASAP

Some just go to the next guy that they are interested in and start another relationship.

Some just temporarily break-up and go back to their LTR after a couple weeks.

Even though I just named a handful of possibilities, YOU need to find out what type she is and see if you are wasting your time or not.

 

[bignick79]

She always answers my calls and text messages, usually right away. She also straight out told me, im attracted to you, but at the time she was with her man and she didn't wanna cheat. I get a little run bit of the run around when we try to do something together. But for sure, she always is flirting with me and me with her. She's touching my arms or my legs, im holding on to her hands or something. Lots of eye contact too! What do u you guys think??

Big Nick

 

[bignick79]

She was a break up and get back together kind of girl for a while, but it seems to be sticking this time. Its been 3-4 weeks, usually it would take a weekend for her to get back with him, but she's the one who broke it off, and i know she's tried of his BS, so i think thats over. As for now, im not sure exactly what category she fits in. She's not being anti-social, cuz we went out this weekend. I haven't gotten the vibe that she wants another relationship, but its kinda soon to see that coming. What do you guys think??

 

[bignick79]

I also haven't called her in 3 days, how long should i wait to call her back and set up another date??

Big Nick

 

[Ice Cold]

A a hot girl I knew dumped a loser friend of mine. We're walking together 3 hours after it happened.

She tells me she dumped him.
ME: Excellent.
HER: Why? (she knew the answer)
ME: (Hugging her) because I don't steal my friends gfs. They come to me usually

heheehe

Kissed the same night.

 

[bignick79]

nice one! Keep em coming guys!!

Big Nick

 

[DJ_Dork]

"Yo I'm so cool and smooth even though I am a rebound teddy bear which will get dumped once she realizes what a loser I am and go back to her ex"

(Starts playing random hip hop music flashing bling bling and leather)

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
"Yo I'm so cool and smooth even though I am a rebound teddy bear which will get dumped once she realizes what a loser I am and go back to her ex"

(Starts playing random hip hop music flashing bling bling and leather)

You may be a loser rebound teddy bear. Not everybody is though